SG, this is not a criticism on your personal life, do whatever works for you.
Your opinion is sound too, even though I don't do it like that.

I personally wasn't a millionaire, I worked by myself, he too ... and I still got screwed big time by the person I trusted. But that's another life, so don't compare your opinion about it with mine or TBs, people are just different, that's it.

Only one thing, if a man makes it a trust issue when I want my own account, and be it for storing my pocket money when he is the main bread winner, that would make me wonder ... it's just normal for me personally, nothing else.