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Originally Posted by chewie2007
From the outside - evaluating potential relationships what does this say about the 30ish virgin to you?
Personally, it’s usually a red flag – although I may be curious to pursue the relationship but I’d be quite cautious…
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Old virgins are a red flag to me too. It feels like "what is wrong with him since he hasn't had any pussy?". And if they have never been in a relationship, how do they know how to behave in a relationship since they have no experience in relationships and romance. However, if that guy is a miracle and knows what romantic things are and can do them without ever having practised, why not if he is the love of my life.
I read once about a guy who married a virgin girl, and after they had had sex on the wedding night, she thought it was a horrible experience and that she never wanted to do it again. Then the guy either had to live in celibacy or get a divorce. He didn't want to cheat on her. I don't know what happened then...
But to each their own.
