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Originally Posted by Need2buyAjaguar
I'm 21 years old now. I'm still alone, and single. I rarely talks to girls who ask me things that are unrelated to work. Most the time I ignore them, but I suppose I don't mind making friends who are caucasian women. that's why I'm here  I talk too little in person.
I love the western culture a lot, firearms, fried chicken, but women is something I haven't decided about yet... I guess I'm like most of the strange honger men.
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this is
not western culture mate, that's american
culture, if that's what you want to call it.
I'll grant you the excuse of being 21, but still, your ignorance is baffling. And offensive.
Would you take me seriously if I told you (assuming I lived in Japan) that what i loved about asian culture was sushi and origami? and frankly, both sushi and origami are actually good things, unlike firearms and fried shitken.
back to the thread, i don't actually think that there's a type of women attracted to asian men. Look at the women on this forum, different looks, backgrounds, races, ages...liking different things about them.
and in my limited experience of asian men, apart from the ones that actually live in asia (ie-the real deal), the others don't have that much in common anyway when looking beyond the appearance.
A chinese guy brought up in a western country becomes more westernised and shares little similarities with his Beijing counterpart. I definitely sees it since joining this website.
And at this stage holds the same appeal to me as a blonde guy would if I was into blondes. The personality plays a big part, and the looks are just the main attraction at first but afterwards, it's like being with a guy from any other country.
The chinese-americans are like americans, the UK ones, like the other brits, with same interests and attitude. There are some little background differences but they are not as wide as it 1st appears.
I am interested in asian culture but won't really find it when spending time with a western country born-and-bred asian.
I guess the asian men raised in a western culture won't really be into a girl who is interested in asian culture as it has little to do with them and she'd probably know more about it than they do.
their life will be more about big macs and Brad Pitt than pork buns and Leon Lai.
I really want someone to disagree on this and prove me wrong by the way.
