I know I was looking for Women that looked like me at first. Yeah I was wanting to stick with the group.
Then I statred making friends with people I talked to in Chat.
Which was a ton of people I found that I liked. Even if some don't like each other.

I still like them, but I just stay out of their fighting .
I also look into thier profiles to see who the person is in a way.
Like, what do they seem to like. Also read their old threads (that they started).
See what threads that they wrote in. Also, if they have a MySpace it is a BONUS!
Then I really get to see who the person is. By reading, seeing their lives in action through photos and post they wrote. Like on mine. Though I need to update my space page! I just don't make ANYONE a friend! I have to get to know you a tiny bit and go from their!Your avatar can't tell me a thing in the long run. It could be you or it can't. Unless I seen you on WEB CAM. I know a load of you seen me and hubby already.
I just wonder what do you folks look for in making a person here a friend.