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Originally Posted by daveytrainsf
....so I think we've all (both guys and girls) had or still have friend crushes whether they range from a simple friend crush to being a stupid fool for that friend.
So I have a friend that I met years back when I was still living in VA. First time I met her I was smitten with her and we've become good friends since. We've always had a flirty friendship and I think there's a mutual attraction there. Actually she should just join this site since she's always looking for an Asian man so she can make AmerAsian babies! But anyways...
When I was living in VA we used to hang out almost every weekend and would talk on a regular basis but since I've moved and she's gone to grad school we've maintained minimal contact. We still call each other once in awhile to catch up. So basically I had a crush on her since the first time we met and I have one of those obvious crushes where not only the rest of our friends know but she also knows. I say it's a "crush" but I have to admit every time I see her and spend time with her I just have this strong feeling to just grab her and kiss her and profess my undying love for her.
So she just finished up her master's degree and is planning on going into another master's program here in the Bay Area. I have to say I'm excited and would be so happy if she moved out here so I could see her again. But what do I do now? Since I've moved here and been away from her for a couple years (besides visits back home for the Holidays) it's been a kind of "out of sight out of mind" sort of deal. I feel like her moving here is like a sign of some sort.
What do I do? She knows I dig her big time. Do I show her for real?
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This has always been the a tough question to answer cause do you jeopardize your friendship with someone that you adore and cherish or take the chance and hope she feels somewhat the same way. This actually reminds me of Thoms post where his friend told him how she really felt about him and he reacted, well, lets just say he didn't feel the same way but I think in the end, if you are long time friends, you can get through anything.
But if I was in your shoes, I would give it a shot and tell her. That's better than wondering WHAT IF? And missing out on an opportunity even if you land flat on your face. At least you will know and you can move on with your life knowing that you are meant to be together or better off as just friends...
