Georgie..tell me honestly...do u hate gym junkies? I dont remember who but someone else in some other post referred to some gym as probably having low self esteem and being insecure because he had big biceps. Now this! I know obessesiveness is a problem...but what about the goal of self improvement? Ive recently seen a hs friend of mine that was fat in hs..now hes built. He can hold a conversation with me, no problem as well. ALot of gym people arent ego inflated adonises or fabios...theyre just guys that want to better themsleves.