A week ago my GF of 2.5 years told me that she was dumping me because she had romantic feelings for her ex again even though she was still partially in love with me. She said she secretly read his journal and found out that he was still in love with her and wanted her back.

She has a child with him. She said the way he was treating their son so well made her fall in love with him all over again.

This guy isn't exactly an angel. He has a pretty checkered past. He has hit her when they were together the first time around. After they broke up and when she would visit her son he would fondle/grab her sexually without consent. About 6 months ago he was being investigated by social services for abusing his son physically.

I hope for her sake he has indeed turned a new leaf and that a leopard can indeed change their spots for good.

If the past is any indication he doesn't handle stress too well. And my ex-gf can be a handful of problems so I don't know if it's going to end to well.

Listen to this, my ex just moved in a 18 year old guy friend to live with her after our breakup. The thing is he just confessed that he was in love with her not too long ago after our breakup because he thought he had a shot with her. And the new boyfriend doesn't seem to have a problem with the 18 year old moving in because he is friends with the guy. Any predictions on how this is all going to end up?

I should feel relieved that she dumped me and I don't have to deal with all the drama and baggage that came with my ex. Don't get me wrong, my ex wasn't all bad. In my eyes there was a lot of good times and she did try her best to make me happy but in the end it just didn't work out.

But I can't help but feel sad and hurt by the way it ended. I guess after living with somebody for over 2 years as a couple it can't be helped to feel pain when it's over even if it's in the best interest for yourself to move on for your future.

Sorry you are going through this. Sound to me like a decision she will regret! But, seems like you deserve better. When one door closes another door will open. I hope you find the special person that is right for you.

Ugh. Sorry man, I feel for you. From an outsider's perspective, though, it sounds like you'll be better in the long run without all the drama. Maybe it's a blessing in disguise.

Sorry.

Sorry to hear Sometimes its way better to be single and happy then be in a relationship and miserble...

Peace

Painful now, you'll be happy later that you guys broke up. If she wants to get back together again in the future, be strong and say no. She sounds like a headcase.

Sorry for the your pain, but sometimes two poeple are just not ment to be together. They are in different phases in thier lives. Sounds like less drama for you and that she still has no idea what she wants. Make yourself happy and move on.

Thanks for all the comments and support.

Sorry to hear about your situation...

I would just let her do what she wants.. to be with him. Apparently it didn't work and she left him and met you. But I guess old FLAMES can rekindle. In my opinion, if she and her ex didn't work out again. Atleast you'll be the better person if you decide to take her back later. Or just move on with your life.

Atleast you didn't want in on your girl having sex with her ex... like what had happened to me. but that's itself should be another thread.

Jesus Christ, what a disaster! Your ex could be on Maury or Jerry for sure...

Count yourself lucky that you're not having to put up with that anymore. Sounds like she's a windsock--she blows with the prevailing wind to whoever will make life exciting. She must like getting hit too.

Good luck on finding a "normal" relationship with a woman who has a better head on her shoulders.