Yeah but it's very tiresome, I don't recommend it!

A little carry-on baggage is ok, but baggage like that has to be checked at the door. Goldengirl, December 21st '08

hmmm.. lets see... my pattern...

1. See cute young Asian man and wonder how old he is and if he's single.
2. Stare at him from a distance for a few moments, hoping he'll look up and/or smile.
3. Wait 'till my ride comes, glancing over every so often to see if he's fled.
4. Walk over quickly, tap him on the shoulder.
5. Hand him an Aznlover card (secretly enjoying watching him read the card and go Huh?).
6. Walk away quickly hoping he doesn't follow, and make my escape.

I know, I'm hopeless.

VISCARIA - Dance With Me
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[lil_dragon] 9:35 pm: julie=朱丽

1- I have a list

2- either this list keeps me by myself or I end up settling

3- if I do not resort to #2 I become a workaholic /excercise/krav mage addict
put too much on my plate to consume my time and take my mind off of romantic interludes.

4- after # 3 I realize that time has passed and I am still alone

5- Go back to list and wonder if I am too picky

6- Step out to try and find someone

7- I meet someone I feel like I can really get into//has past relationship issues or is in love with someone who is not in love with them// I end up either being a personal life coach /therapist..... and because I am such a great friend and the guy totally respects me he will not bring himself to corrupt our friendship with romance or we get together have a bubbly infectious fling with wild passionate sex a couple of times then I get bored (because it leaves me empty) and refer back to my list



--cycle starts over--

I actually met someone I really like so I am chunking the list and letting things happen

In my twenties my relationships were for the most part with women best described as "party girls" and we tended to enable both our self destructive tendancies and habits.

Whatever flaws they had, we always had a great time in the beginning, but it always burned out within an average of three months.

I am happy to have broken that habit and taken a chance with someone more grounded but still possessing a spirit of adventure.

There IS a '4 point play' in basketball.