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08-28-2006, 12:17 PM

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How to deal with the temptation ... to fight? I don't know either, people.

Now back topic, I haven't been tempted to be with another man than my spouse as long as those relationships were ok.
When I got tempted then it was mostly for more reasons than one man being attractive.
I have learned to better stop relationships when it starts to be like I look at other men with "thoughts". Because that's my personal sign that something isn't right with the relationship I am in, otherwise I am not tempted.

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Originally Posted by Lady_Fate

Because that's my personal sign that something isn't right with the relationship I am in, otherwise I am not tempted.

Hey lady_fate,
thanks for that perspective. I guess that what makes men different from woman. Even the holy of the holies fails in temptation every so often. Otherwise the Catholic church won’t have such issue on their hands...

Woman have their romance novels etc to keep them going...

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More irrelevance.
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Because I'm not the one who's come to the thread with delusions of confronting his imaginary stalker with all the little fucking groups of letters he holds and his little bundle of green Assurances.

And once more you return to the little boy antics you've leveled at me. Who's got the Daddy issues?

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ROFL, romance novels? That goes for some of us but not me, I don't read romance novels, too girly.

And I also wouldn't be sure if all women feel like me, so ... it's still mysterious why some people cheat and some don't.

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Haha, I thought you would enjoy the thread here ...

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Haha, I thought you would enjoy the thread here ...

I don't know that I would go so far as to say that I'm enjoying it. "Mildly tickled" would perhaps be a more accurate description.

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Originally Posted by sam

We all encounter infatuations in our lives, and sometimes can become the recipients of very flattering attention.

So for those of you who are in a long term relationship and have been for a while, how do you handle things when the inevitable temptation comes around in the form of another man/woman who is not your spouse?

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I'm right with SG... I keep myself out of any potential situation. If there is a friendly exchange somewhere and I find it getting friendlier than necessary I will distance myself and possibly cut the person off out of respect for my man!

We are all human beings, and I understand that these things are inevitable even if we don't want to at times admit to it, but that is why it's best to keep yourself out of potential situations and as soon as you notice something "changing". Just catch yourself and back away!!!

Yes, a very good idea!

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