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Il arrive que parfois dans notre vie sentimentale que l'on tombe sur de vrais manipulateurs/trices,qui ont l'art et la manière d'obtenir pratiquement tout ce qu'ils veulent soit par l'usure ou soit en employant la manipulation affective (du style: <>, ou alors <>.

Est-ce que vous même avez-vous connu ce genre de situation,et si oui quelle attitude avez-vous adopté?
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non, mais si ca arrive, ben qu'elle essaies~
Une mes qualite -> en bon quebecois on dit, Je m'en calisse
No seriously, I'm not an a-hole, talk to me
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minhhung is just really niceminhhung is just really niceminhhung is just really niceminhhung is just really niceminhhung is just really niceminhhung is just really niceminhhung is just really niceminhhung is just really niceminhhung is just really niceminhhung is just really niceminhhung is just really nice
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Il arrive que parfois dans notre vie sentimentale que l'on tombe sur de vrais manipulateurs/trices,qui ont l'art et la manière d'obtenir pratiquement tout ce qu'ils veulent soit par l'usure ou soit en employant la manipulation affective (du style: <>, ou alors <>.

Est-ce que vous même avez-vous connu ce genre de situation,et si oui quelle attitude avez-vous adopté?
Cela m'arrive tout le temps avec les filles. Au début de la relation, elles sont toujours gentilles, mais dès que cela devient un peu sérieux, elles cherchent toujours a faire du chantage affectif pour satisfaire leurs caprices.

Je suis un habitué maintenant de ce genre de choses et je ne rentre plus dans leur jeu. IL suffit de montrer qu'on ne va pas céder a leurs caprices et elles arretent alors leurs scenes assez rapidement.
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Je ne me suis jamais laissée affecter par le chantage affectif... si un mec me disait "si tu m'aimes, tu vas le faire" je lui répondrait "ben cou donc, je dois pas t'aimer tant que ça... Tourlou!!"

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Il arrive que parfois dans notre vie sentimentale que l'on tombe sur de vrais manipulateurs/trices,qui ont l'art et la manière d'obtenir pratiquement tout ce qu'ils veulent soit par l'usure ou soit en employant la manipulation affective (du style: <>, ou alors <>.

Est-ce que vous même avez-vous connu ce genre de situation,et si oui quelle attitude avez-vous adopté?

Tiens ça me rappelle les pervers narcissiques dans certains couples ( cf le livre de Marie-France Hirigoyen) qui usent de la manipulation affective afin d'isoler le conjoint, pour ensuite mieux le manipuler et le dominer.
Ca craint ce genre de situation
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Tiens ça me rappelle les pervers narcissiques dans certains couples ( cf le livre de Marie-France Hirigoyen) qui usent de la manipulation affective afin d'isoler le conjoint, pour ensuite mieux le manipuler et le dominer.
Ca craint ce genre de situation
wow! quelle coincidence ,j'ai lu récemement un article sur wikipédia qui parlait de ça les PN -pour les intimes IoI- c'est assez long comme article et je ne crois pas avoir tout bien compris mais en tout cas ça fait froid dans le dos
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Personellement, je pense qu'il faut vraiment avoir un grain ou un très gros problème d'égo (genre gros schtarbé ) pour ressentir le besoin de rabaisser les autres, de les casser moralement, pour se sentir bien dans sa peau.
Que cela se déroule en entreprise, passe encore (ptet pas le mot juste), mais que certains fassent subir ce genre de traitements Ã* leur conjoint, je comprendrais que le conjoint victime de brimades finisse par péter un cable
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Personellement, je pense qu'il faut vraiment avoir un grain ou un très gros problème d'égo (genre gros schtarbé ) pour ressentir le besoin de rabaisser les autres, de les casser moralement, pour se sentir bien dans sa peau.
Que cela se déroule en entreprise, passe encore (ptet pas le mot juste), mais que certains fassent subir ce genre de traitements ê leur conjoint, je comprendrais que le conjoint victime de brimades finisse par péter un cable
Oui schartbé comme tu dis -IoI on utilise encore ce mot lÃ*-pire que JR dans Dallas ou Paul Newman dans les Feux ,hummm ché pas j'aurais bien aimé expérimenter ce genre de "maladie" pour voir quel effet cela produirait sur les gens de mon entourage,constater quelle sorte de jouissance on peut éprouver ......juste pas longtemps of course!
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Pour savoir ce que ca pourrait donner, tu peux regarder le "Tatie Danielle", l'histoire d'une grand mère dans le genre pervers narcissique. Je ne l'ai pas vu moi même (pas trop mon truc), mais Ã* ce qu'il parait ce film décrit bien les caractéristiques de ce genre de personnage
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