hey dude,
yeah think you are already back home ..
next time when u come, let me know .. i know some clubs in Holland ... and they people are relaxed and you will make a lot of new friends, promised

i totally agree with your first impression .. people here are not open as in the States or Canada ... unless you are not chinese ...

somehow chinese are not so accepted in party scenes ... dont know why ...
i have been to some places in Holland and Belgium ... and it just seemed that you need to be looking like Brad Pitt to have some attention ...

anyway, happy travelling man

cya

Don't let that dishearten you bro; you're not a bad looking guy so there shouldn't be any reason why you can't get at least "some" attention if not anything more.

How many of us look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney? Guys who are bona-fide sex symbols to (based upon polls and surveys) WF's, HF's and AF's (unsurprising huh?) but not so much BF's . I know I don't but that doesn't stop me from talking to females I find attractive because beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there are women out there who like different looks.

Asians have a different image here.

Instead of beng labeled scientists and professionals in NA, which even though is a nerd image, is albeit far more positive than what most people here prob think of Asians, who are almost always recent immigrants from poorer southern regions, shorter than average, small business owners, and very few in number.

Still, God knows that hasn't stopped me

wait, so the asian image is even worse in belgium than in the states!!??

what happened to the tons of AM/WF couples walking the streets.....

jojo is so confused...

it is contradictory

but its true

its eaiser to see interracial couples here but people in general are more racist...

i can't tell you y. maybe there are porportionally more curious people as well!

maybe jojo should do the exchange program to netherlands or france instead....the asian image seems to be better there. tho, french women usually have multiple partners and the dutch are all freaking tall lol....
(2 yrs of french minor in school probly isn't enough.....)

note to self: remember to take asianplayboy's abc bootcamp soon. :-)

Brad Pitt sucks!

But it's true, whenever I'm going out, I don't see much Asian guys.
I guess because of the fact they don't feel/get accepted, which is too bad.
Last time I was in Carré, there were a few of them, but they all had a white girlfriend so that might be the reason why.

Remember Jojo, the avg height in the nederlands is over 6ft tall.

Girls are also very very tall.

I am 6'1'', and I am very very average here. However, in France and italy, I was huge compared to the vast majority of the locals.

I'll be lying in saying that girls are 'into' asians here. But you know, its not like white girls who like white guys are into their 'whiteness' u know?

Most girls will date you because they are into YOU. If they happen to prefer asian guys then i guess it'll be easier.

However, no girl has ever liked me BECAUSE i was asian...

in fact, I dont think any of them was even interested in Asian culture...or even Chinese foods

so that just goes to show you in the end, its really you being interesting to them that will turn them on

peace

I have alreay been liked because i was korean specifically.

But weren't u liked because u were foreigner who could speak another language though? Some women dig that

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