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Singles in China

A disturbing problem that's been discussed on the site before.  There are simply too many single men compared to single women in China and to a lesser extent, the rest of Asia.  I noticed this myself when I lived in Shanghai and visited the rest of China during my short stay.  Some predict rising discontent amongst these men which may necessitate a war by those in power.  Others say the problem is overblown.  Here's an article which talks about situation.

Singles in China 2

China's future problems are easy to spot. You can see them in the front row of the Hui Kang kindergarten class in the city of Huizhou.

Four boys sit next to a girl. Further back, a girl in pigtails and a pink jumper stands out amid a group of boys.

In recent years, the kindergarten has been getting more and more boys.

Since the late 1970s Chinese couples have been allowed just one child - and most parents here prefer to have a son.

"It's having a real effect," said Ms Zheng, the school's head teacher.

"One of our classes has 39 boys and just eight girls. It's a serious problem. When there are more boys than girls, the girls copy the boys and they become more aggressive," she said.

At break time, the girls need to be pretty good at defending themselves. One girl beats off four boys who try to have a look at what she was drawing. China is worried about what may happen in 20 years or so when these kids grow up and start trying to settle down.

An official estimate says that, by 2020, there may be 30 million men of marriageable age who will not be able to find a wife.

The gender imbalance has various causes. Abortions on female foetuses are believed to be widespread as couples, particularly in rural areas, hope for a son who will look after them in their old age. There is also suspected under-reporting of female births.

'No-one to impress'

On China's tropical island of Hainan, you get an idea of the problems the country might face in a bachelor-heavy future.

In a small village, made up of shacks and pig pens, there are already too many men, and not enough women.

Liu Yaxiao introduces his three brothers - all in their 30s, all unmarried.

They sit along the edge of a bed, looking a bit sheepish and forlorn.

They were born before the one child policy began - but they still cannot find anyone to marry.

All the single women left their village long ago in search of work.

At home they have to cook for themselves. That is embarrassing in a country where women are expected to make the food.

Liu Yading is one of the brothers. He has a motorbike and leather jacket and does his best to look fairly cool. But there is no one for him to impress.

"There are more than a hundred men aged between 18 to 40 who are unmarried in our village," he says.

"Nearby villages are all like us. How can we get married? I don't know what to do or where to start finding a wife. I'm stuck - unless God can help me."

The brothers eat lunch by themselves.

Outside the village shop, men and teenagers hang about.

They keep an eye on the main road - in case any eligible women wander by. But the road is empty.

In years to come, for the single men of China, things will only get worse.




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wrong way to countrol a country

I guess they will all be gay, its funny all the things in china that is successful is because of the decrease in control of the people.eg capitalism
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What about ethnic minorities and those in the countryside? Their growth rate can be up to 7 times higher than the Hans of the central coast, since the first two groups are not bound by this "One-Child Policy" and the subsequent female-male ratio that is often misunderstood by media.

You mentioned, "and to an extent, the rest of Asia"...To my understanding, the only other Asian country like that is India. Other Asian countries can have an excess of females to males!
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*have them move to southern california*
*problem solved*

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Wah?! They've all gone wifi and/or bluetooth?

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*have them move to southern california*
*problem solved*
Some good men would be needed in Finland too, so that my Finnish single sisters can finally get good men
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we should start arranging picture grooms over.
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I'm movin' to China!

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To be serious, I believe that most single young men come from the country where there is no heating in houses or running electricity. I wonder how many Western women would be able to move to his place... And they probably don't speak other languages than Chinese...
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