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For me Im fortunate to have friends and family that know and is supportive of my love of asian men. They already know to expect that from me. The only person that may say something is my grandfather but will still accept him as long as he makes me happy and is a good man.
Its usually his friends and/or family that either wont accept me or do accept but after a whole lot of drama. My family is open to it and welcomes it as long as im happy with him. Although it doesnt happen every time I date an asian man but a good percentage of the time it does.
Most of them didnt let it stop us from dating though. I noticed that if the guy still lives at home with his folks it becomes harder for him to deal with because of the constant badgering of mom and dad. If a guy lives seperate from his parents then its a little easier for him be to indifferent to what the family has to say.
As far as friends go most guys I have dated their friends werent a problem. It is more accepted among their friends and if they did have a problem with it, they were never rude or disrespectful towards us. Other than a few dirty looks from a few asian female friends now and then, it really wasnt a big deal with his friends. Its the family that can present a challenge. Eventually even his asian female friends ended up being cool with me. So yeah for me its been more his family that creates an issue.
It's a shame that you would encounter any problems from your Asian bf's family n frenz. You are so beautiful - if my friend or son dated you I would high-5 him constantly. Of course if u were with me I would high-5 myself....
Like I have said in previous posts, it was only a couple years ago that I really started being into Asian guys. It took one guy and I was hooked. No one I know is attracted to them besides me. I am not afraid to tell people, sometimes I am just hesitant when it comes to people who I know are prone to making stupid comments or making fun of me when its a stupid reason you know? They will make dumb comments about stupid stereotypes about Asian guys. Anyway, my family knows about my preference and so do most of my friends. No one understands, but seems to be like... well she's always kinda been the weird one to do her own thing so whatever. For me now, I still got the preference but its more of an awareness of different races in general. Its not just a black/white world or me. Anyway, that's my two cents.
My mom always raised me to love and respect all people, and growing up I honestly didn't think too much about people's races. I had friends of all races, and even when I was a kid, I had crushes on boys of all races, and I never thought a thing of it. As I got older I became aware that my dad might not be thrilled if I dated another race, although my mom is totally supportive. I've always particularly liked Asian guys, and I didn't even realize that it was somewhat uncommon until about 1.5 years ago when I started checking out communities like this!
Regardless, I don't really care what others think. My parents will support me and love who I love. Any friend who would judge me because of who I'm attracted to is not really a friend. I'm happy to talk about it to anyone who asks.
I'm proud of my preference... why not? It's not a thing I can control, so why hide it??
I don't have to worry about this. My family wants me to be happy and treated well. They don't care what race someone is. Personally, I could care less what anyone thinks. If anyone I was friends with didn't like my partner because of race, than I guess they wouldn't be my friend anymore. I date someone because I like them for who they are, not so I can impress others!
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