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Isn't this better than the usual threads, as of late, of "would you date a porn star?" and other such triviality which you yourself had issues with? I'll agree with you that successful, good-looking men willl be attractive no matter where he goes, but surely you're not denying there are other factors involved here? City, country, who-you-meet all come into play when it comes how some women might perceive you.
Je Suis,
In case you're wondering - I'm not venting against BM's; in fact, if you noticed it, I actually congratulated them for their prowess in attracting other races of women. I'm sorry if my little observation came off wrong or weird. You mentioned about educated BM and women being attracted to them. I agree with you, but what I didn't explicitly mention was that I was specifically talking about some BM (who may not have Ivy league or college degress) but still manage to attract more than a good share of WF's. The question I would ask is: would an Asian guy of a comparative level (education, looks) attract the same type of woman? I would answer no. Why? Because, like I said, cultural factors favour the BM when it comes to IR dating. Similarly, non-AF who are more inclined for AM may not necessarily be attracted to BM. Why? Because of different expectations, interests and passions.
Boo fucking Hoo! All this outrage over "reverse discrimination" when it has been much much worse the other way for 350 years?
What really pisses me off is the mere existence of this video... There is this kind of media attention for the few poor whites in south africa when the vast majority of poor people are still black?
"The hottest places in hell are reserved for those who in times of great moral crisis maintain their neutrality."
"When fascism comes to America, it will be wrapped in a flag, carrying a cross" - Sinclair Lewis
The question I would ask is: would an Asian guy of a comparative level (education, looks) attract the same type of woman? I would answer no. Why? Because, like I said, cultural factors favour the BM when it comes to IR dating. Similarly, non-AF who are more inclined for AM may not necessarily be attracted to BM. Why? Because of different expectations, interests and passions.
Well, even tho AMs have negative stereotypes w/ regard to physical attributes due to the media not showing attractive AMs, and people generally wouldn't think of Asian males, in general, as being attractive:
about 7-8% of married black American males are married to WFs
while 25-26% of married US born Asian-American males are married to WFs.
Think about that.
(Basically, if you are an AM who is at least a 7 on the attractiveness scale, I'd say that you would do better w/ WFs than BMs - except the really good-looking BMs, unless you happen to be a 9+ yourself).
And culturally, on a %-basis, there are more AMs who are compatible w/ WFs than BMs (after all, we Asian-Ams, aside from FOBs, pretty much consume media, etc. just like whites).
Isn't this better than the usual threads, as of late, of "would you date a porn star?" and other such triviality which you yourself had issues with? I'll agree with you that successful, good-looking men willl be attractive no matter where he goes, but surely you're not denying there are other factors involved here? City, country, who-you-meet all come into play when it comes how some women might perceive you.
That may be true, but have you thought whether BM's are more or less serious about marriage than AM? In my opinion, AM's are more serious about marriage than BM (not saying this is bad or anything). Are BM more inclined for continuous dating/short term relationships than marriage? I maybe different to alot of Asian guys out there but I'm not really one for a long-term serious relationship at the moment. Anyway, regardless of the stats, I was specifically speaking about the scene in bars and nightclubs; I still think that the odds favour us less than other men in nightclubs and bars--all things being equal (looks, personality, how you dress). I mean, there was a male member on here, Hen, (if you're reading this -don't take any offense) who initiated a thread where he said some female rejected him because she didn't find him attractive (whatever that meant). Maybe I'm reading too much into this, but somehow something tells me that a comparative BM may have had a 10 or 20 per cent greater chance of success. Now that wouldn't guarantee that he'd get a date, but I'm merely pointing out the odds would favour him as opposed to Hen. I'm not whining; I'm merely pointing out that the idea of BM's, as romantic partners, appeals more to a generalised group of women (the ones you'd find in bars, nightclubs who watch MTV, and watch pop music). In the end though, who cares what I say? Everyone has their own expectations and opinions. Just live and enjoy your life.
I find it increasingly tiresome that lame little shits of WEAK Asian men (not directed at anybody) go to great lengths to attribute their lack of success with women to racial perception instead of first taking a good HARD look at themselves and who they are and what they portray.
Personally, most of the BM/WF couples I have seen have been in media. They are artificially paired up to convey a misperception of IR tolerance in this country. In reality, I have hardly seen any serious BM/WF couples. I don't count those who were just having lunch together as friends. Few years ago, I spent a week in NYC, the most metropolitan city, in the US. I ran into only one BM/AF couple. One IR couple...that is...for the entire week in Manhattan.
