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girl was murdered for refusing arranged marriage?

a Pakistani girl was murdered because she didn't want to be arranged in marriage.

Girl who feared arranged marriage 'murdered': coroner - Yahoo! Canada News

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I think you dwell on stories like this way too much. It perpetuates your fear of the world around you.

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arrange marriage! it's been awhile since i last heard those 2 words. my ex told me his family had an arrange marriage for him. it turned out he fucked this girl when he went back to taiwan and he agreed to marry her because she threatened to kill herself. then he met me and decided to call it off. i was 17 when i met him. 3 months later, he left me and married her in taiwan. his reason for leaving me was because i didn't sleep w/ him.
this is not it! he came back and told me the truth. he said he made a mistake of marrying her and he was miserable this entire time. he also said he will divorce her after helping her to come to america. my so call first puppy love fucked up by this guy. i left him for my current bf.
i still believe arrange marriage exist in today's world. it sounds pathetic to kill your own daughter for refusing an arrange marriage.
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I can't say I'm all that surprised about this. Though it has been a while since I've heard about an arranged marriage. I don't think I'll ever understand the whole mentality behind it though.
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I think you dwell on stories like this way too much. It perpetuates your fear of the world around you.
Why would he fear something which doesn't affect his community? It's more like concern. Honor killings are a growing problem in the UK.
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Why would he fear something which doesn't affect his community? It's more like concern. Honor killings are a growing problem in the UK.
I guess you could ask Picard why he has so many fears. He lives in Toronto, a large metro area will a lot of diversity.
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that is awful of course.

but I understand that europeans don't want to have those problems in their own countries.
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but I understand that europeans don't want to have those problems in their own countries.
its understandable, nobody wants stuff like that happening in their backyard.
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