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It makes sense... the more you get to know me.Captain Obvious v. Mistress Oblivious
Posted 03-01-2009 at 02:03 PM by BlackCherryB
So yeah, I'm in an amazing mood. Like, seriously I am beyond happy and my life is becoming exponentially better with each passing day.
Unfortunately, however, I'm becoming annoyed with how fucking miserable everyone else makes themselves I swear I see so many damn emo pics on my facebook and its constant drama, drama, drama from my friends back home and family around my age. I mean goddamn. Life is hard, I know, but there comes a time when you pull up your boot straps and face the music. I'm so tired of hearing complaint after complaint after fricken complaint. And for what? The guy you like has a girlfriend? Ok move on. Your family life is shitty? As was mine but I made it out. Do they buck up and take life by the horns? Hell no they fucking starve themselves like a dumbass and keep asking me fucking questions like, "If I don't eat will my hair fall out?" WHAT THE FUCK!?!?! I'm constantly busting my ass to get you somewhere and you fucking piss on it by acting like you don't have some damn sense?!?!?! Don't tell me shit expecting me to whine and coo over your ass constantly if you don't better yourself. I'm on a mission to turn my dreams into reality but if you keep acting like a jackass I'm so tempted to leave your ass on the side of the road. I don't have the time to be babysitting a fucking emo who'd rather wallow and talk about their pain than do something about it. I've got a life people!
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Yeah so that was mostly a message to someone close to me in my life whose being a bit difficult. They won't read it because they do not belong to this site but damn it felt good to get it out. I could use some advice on how to handle it. So far I am not talking to said person because they are "shitting on my efforts" as I so told them.
Bai bai
Unfortunately, however, I'm becoming annoyed with how fucking miserable everyone else makes themselves I swear I see so many damn emo pics on my facebook and its constant drama, drama, drama from my friends back home and family around my age. I mean goddamn. Life is hard, I know, but there comes a time when you pull up your boot straps and face the music. I'm so tired of hearing complaint after complaint after fricken complaint. And for what? The guy you like has a girlfriend? Ok move on. Your family life is shitty? As was mine but I made it out. Do they buck up and take life by the horns? Hell no they fucking starve themselves like a dumbass and keep asking me fucking questions like, "If I don't eat will my hair fall out?" WHAT THE FUCK!?!?! I'm constantly busting my ass to get you somewhere and you fucking piss on it by acting like you don't have some damn sense?!?!?! Don't tell me shit expecting me to whine and coo over your ass constantly if you don't better yourself. I'm on a mission to turn my dreams into reality but if you keep acting like a jackass I'm so tempted to leave your ass on the side of the road. I don't have the time to be babysitting a fucking emo who'd rather wallow and talk about their pain than do something about it. I've got a life people!
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Yeah so that was mostly a message to someone close to me in my life whose being a bit difficult. They won't read it because they do not belong to this site but damn it felt good to get it out. I could use some advice on how to handle it. So far I am not talking to said person because they are "shitting on my efforts" as I so told them.
Bai bai
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kudos for recognising whats going on with this friend. You cant help ppl if there not ready to be helped. Sometimes being a crutch for someone actually makes things much worse for them. Because they never learn to properly deal with the consequences of there attitude. So even if you thought you were being a good friend helping out and being supportive its not necessarily so.
Seems to me like your already on the right track telling them how you feel and then taking a step back for a while. You dont have to ditch them as a friend completely but unless there prepared to help themselves you shouldnt put yourself out to much for them. Good luck !Posted 03-02-2009 at 02:23 AM by minerva
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Mine is absolutely right!
Long story short; this weekend, I fussed and cussed at my mom and brother. Basically told them "Don't give me your fucking problems. Suck it up! Why are you against me for doing things with my life?" My brother just whines, blames EVERYONE for his shitty problems; he WON'T work and complaints about never getting things he wants. Simple fix; get a damn job, job training, after school hobby, some fuckin' thing.
And my mom is going through menopause and blaming me from why her tea isn't hot enough to why the weather's so damn cold. Simple fix; go see a doctor, take medications, smoke weed, do ANYTHING except bitch and whine.
I got dreams to accomplish. I don't have the [B][I]time[/I][/B] to feel depress and be in an emotional rutt like everyone else around me.
To be blunt, We got shit to do Girlie :biglaugh: ;)Posted 03-02-2009 at 04:19 PM by HunnieBee
