My dad is a playa....
Posted 07-30-2008 at 11:42 AM by brwnsuga0407
I cant stand that after all these years my father is still a damn playa.....a ladies man, if you will.
While i'm glad that he settled down and got married in his early 20s...(or else I wouldnt have been born)..even then, he still had women around him. I'm glad my parents got divorced. I look back on how he was growing up and I watch how he is now.... and I wouldnt want that on my mother. yea, she dealt with it for 3yrs...but I'd be damned if I had to see her go thru that for 24yrs.
people say you should work marriages out... fuck that! I would never try and work things out with a man who loves women and cant keep his dick in his pants.
I call how my dad is..an occupational hazard. he is a DJ. and for some reason.. women LOVE DJs. my dad takes advantage of that I think. he is super flirty. Oh, i've seen him in action... Ive gone to the clubs he works at. women throw themselves at him. I've gotten bitches cuttin their eyes at me and talkin' shit cuz they think i'm his girl. wtf?! first of all...thats gross, second.. i'm his daughter. my dad is always telling them to calm down.. that i'm his daughter. my question is..wtf does it matter who I am? stop being a slut and throwing yourself at my dad!
i've seen so many women in my dads life...I dont know what to do with myself. ever since I was 2...i've been at some womans house.. and then its off to the next womans house. even when he has a girlfriend.
he has one now. they live together. but, do you think that stops my dad? oooohhh nooooo... he still has other women on the side. I can go thru my dad's phone and every number say for maybe 10 out of 100 numbers are female.
you are 47 dad.. when the fuck are you gonna grow up???? I cant stand this about my dad. I refuse to answer questions he has about women. example: this weekend I was out with my cousin and her friends. we stopped by my dads club. that night he kept asking me about one of my cousins friends.. a Filipino chick (mind you this is the same guy who asked me why I like asians) he's all...whats her name, whats she like, blah blah blah.. I told him wtf does it matter? you got a girl. and I told him to stop talking about it because I dont want to talk to him about other females.
they say women tend to go toward men who are like their fathers. kinda true....i've dated men like him...save for one. I hope to god I dont end up with a man like my father.. a sneaky ass man. if I do..i'm sure it wont last long... cuz when I suspect shit.. i'm like a fucking detective. I wish my dads current girlfriend was like that.. they argue a lot about this kinda shit... yet she is still with him. she left once... but he wanted her back. blah blah blah. dumb!
I love my dad but damn...he can annoy me sometimes. why cant he just be a fucking man and settle down with one good woman? why all the constant running around? I think the day he gets out the clubs...he will slow down. maybe not. but he's almost 50 for crying out loud!
While i'm glad that he settled down and got married in his early 20s...(or else I wouldnt have been born)..even then, he still had women around him. I'm glad my parents got divorced. I look back on how he was growing up and I watch how he is now.... and I wouldnt want that on my mother. yea, she dealt with it for 3yrs...but I'd be damned if I had to see her go thru that for 24yrs.
people say you should work marriages out... fuck that! I would never try and work things out with a man who loves women and cant keep his dick in his pants.
I call how my dad is..an occupational hazard. he is a DJ. and for some reason.. women LOVE DJs. my dad takes advantage of that I think. he is super flirty. Oh, i've seen him in action... Ive gone to the clubs he works at. women throw themselves at him. I've gotten bitches cuttin their eyes at me and talkin' shit cuz they think i'm his girl. wtf?! first of all...thats gross, second.. i'm his daughter. my dad is always telling them to calm down.. that i'm his daughter. my question is..wtf does it matter who I am? stop being a slut and throwing yourself at my dad!
i've seen so many women in my dads life...I dont know what to do with myself. ever since I was 2...i've been at some womans house.. and then its off to the next womans house. even when he has a girlfriend.
he has one now. they live together. but, do you think that stops my dad? oooohhh nooooo... he still has other women on the side. I can go thru my dad's phone and every number say for maybe 10 out of 100 numbers are female.
you are 47 dad.. when the fuck are you gonna grow up???? I cant stand this about my dad. I refuse to answer questions he has about women. example: this weekend I was out with my cousin and her friends. we stopped by my dads club. that night he kept asking me about one of my cousins friends.. a Filipino chick (mind you this is the same guy who asked me why I like asians) he's all...whats her name, whats she like, blah blah blah.. I told him wtf does it matter? you got a girl. and I told him to stop talking about it because I dont want to talk to him about other females.
they say women tend to go toward men who are like their fathers. kinda true....i've dated men like him...save for one. I hope to god I dont end up with a man like my father.. a sneaky ass man. if I do..i'm sure it wont last long... cuz when I suspect shit.. i'm like a fucking detective. I wish my dads current girlfriend was like that.. they argue a lot about this kinda shit... yet she is still with him. she left once... but he wanted her back. blah blah blah. dumb!
I love my dad but damn...he can annoy me sometimes. why cant he just be a fucking man and settle down with one good woman? why all the constant running around? I think the day he gets out the clubs...he will slow down. maybe not. but he's almost 50 for crying out loud!
Total Comments 9
Comments
-
ahhh....kinda speechless that he's actually asking you about YOUR friends. Not a good sign. He should be discreet around his OWN daugher....jeesh. I can see how that would effect your trust in men, growing up w that. Sorry!Posted 07-30-2008 at 12:01 PM by Diesel11
-
they aren't my friends.. my cousin's friends.. they are in their 30s. but still, I dont want to hear it! ugh! and it has effected me.. growing up seeing how my dad and older brother are. siiigh. I have trust issues. but, it has made me wiser on the silly games men play. I can spot a douchebag a mile away these days..... my recent ex has also helped me in that way.Posted 07-30-2008 at 12:29 PM by brwnsuga0407
-
yeah well I guess that's the good part (if there is one) then...you can smell a guy's BS better than anyone.Posted 07-30-2008 at 12:37 PM by Diesel11
-
yep. women love DJs. Dont blame your father. Remember that most men cannot say NO if women throw themselves at them.
(haha. Especially most DJs)Posted 07-30-2008 at 02:52 PM by bold
-
my grandfather was like that with my mother and her sister. i was not around to see any of it. he basically disappeared shorty after i was around. maybe a few or so years and poof, gone. i don't know the whole exact story, but, i don't care that much anymore either. my mother has had a "friend" on the side for a very long time while she is still married to my father. but, the situation with them is different.
i have been in relationships with djs...some can stay faithful to their lady, but, may still be a flirt sometimes. but, there are certainly the kind that are not and do not stay faithful. just like any other person who does not want to take that option of having one person in their lives.
i could go on and on about this kind of thing. but, i won't.
just remember that sometimes age has nothing to do with it and sometimes that is the highest motivation. when a man or a lady tends to start getting older, as we all do, they might feel a little inner pressure to keep up with their younger correspondents. lol. or just keep up in general. messing around is a big factor in that sometimes. makes a person feel like they are wanted, desired, fuckable, etc. it is all about ego stroking and self esteem.Posted 07-30-2008 at 03:28 PM by xqzmi
-
I've always wondered what the allure of a DJ is I know a girl who throws herself at them. God's sakes half of them literally just stick a record on and blend it into another track!Posted 07-30-2008 at 03:30 PM by Ricecooker
-
Oh god.. I know some guys and also girls like that and I can't stand it. When you're in a relationship, stay with your partner or just don't have one. Have you ever told him how you feel?
I guess he won't change anyway..Posted 07-30-2008 at 05:38 PM by Rebsie
-
Ya know I just thought of a new good reality TV show: My dad is a playa...... ;pPosted 07-30-2008 at 06:46 PM by Diesel11
-
your dad is a beach?!Posted 07-30-2008 at 11:26 PM by dannyboy
