so this guy....
Posted 11-20-2008 at 11:51 PM by brwnsuga0407
...that i've only hung out with twice.. comes at me talking bout he loves me...
sent me texts saying.. I miss you...
TWICE people!!! we only hung out twice...
do I really need to hear some guy say I love you.... after only chillen two times wit me..... I think not!
what happend to establishing FRIENDSHIPS?!?! Jesus H. Christ!
sent me texts saying.. I miss you...
TWICE people!!! we only hung out twice...
do I really need to hear some guy say I love you.... after only chillen two times wit me..... I think not!
what happend to establishing FRIENDSHIPS?!?! Jesus H. Christ!
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That's nothing, I've asked you to marry me and we never met! :tongue:Posted 11-21-2008 at 12:57 AM by OneAndOnlyDK
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maybe you're just that awesome.Posted 11-21-2008 at 02:22 AM by yarkmu
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I think something is wrong with someone that says it that quickly. Even if he does feel that way, it's enough to scare anyone away saying it so soon. Maybe it's love at first sight, but he may be one with emotion problems. He isn't confident in himself, so he fears you won't want to see him again unless he tells you he loves you. Just tell him straight forward that you would like to just be friends for now until you get to know him a little more.Posted 11-21-2008 at 08:12 AM by luvasiagal
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I would break the contact alltogether.
In case you say you wanna be friends then you have to be prepared that he will always hope for more.
In case you give in you will have the most clingy boyfriend ever.
That's all no good.
If someone sets off my creep alert like this he gets one polite rejection and then doesn't hear from me anymore, ever!
Nothing like "friends" and especially not with an added "for now", they never get that.Posted 11-21-2008 at 08:29 AM by Lady_Fate
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RUN, FOREST! RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN!Posted 11-21-2008 at 01:21 PM by 03elleinad
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Hmmm...well, that's certainly strange. I would hold off on jumping into anything too quckly if I were you so that you don't get hurt. I mean, how could a guy say that he loves you after only seeing him twice???
Very unusual.
Be prudent, be cautious. Make him earn your trust. Remember, if he really loves you, then if you make him prove himself to you that he really loves you by going slowly, and make him prove that he's not just saying that to you for other reasons, maybe just trying to get something out of you, then he'll be patient and take the time and effort to really prove himself to you, and really prove to you that he really loves you. If this is really serious and this is for real, and he really means it, then he'll wait, because he really values you and loves you, and because he really wants to be with you no matter what and no matter what it takes. But, I wouldn't quite believe him if I were you at face value, and commit too quickly to him, without at least waiting a little while and taking it slow so that you could see if he really loves you. I mean most guys usually don't say that after only hanging out with a woman twice. Who knows? What he's saying may be real after all, but I'd be cautious and take it slow and not commit yourself so fast, so that you can be sure that this is the real thing, and you can prevent yourself from getting hurt just in case it is not.
I hope everything turns out well for you.
Let us know if you want to how everything ended up. Good luck.Posted 11-21-2008 at 01:56 PM by Observor41
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Seriously, does anyone really think such a person can possibly talk about real love and will be able to prove it?
I make one exception here, when people talked for ages otherwise, like in the net, then it would be more understandable to me ... a bit but not really entirely.
Otherwise it's just being needy, and neediness is not love.
I personally would backpaddle fast!Posted 11-21-2008 at 02:22 PM by Lady_Fate
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I'm on LF's side...holy hell my creep alert alarm would be blowing ear drums...I've had a guy do something like that after two online conversations...and I tried to be nice...needless to say a year and a half later I still had a stalker and the police had to get involved. Do no DO NOT take it too lightly. Protect yourself first. Lay it down for him politely but honestly. I think it is way weird that he would say it like that. *red lights flashing* yikes.
Be careful lady.Posted 11-21-2008 at 03:17 PM by sugarwater 
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But I do Love you! Give me another Chance!Posted 11-21-2008 at 04:12 PM by Boondocksaints
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hjahahaAHHAHAHA
Posted 11-21-2008 at 04:17 PM by Notorious E.Y.K
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You just that hot sug! You all that and a bag of cheezey chipz!!!
Seriously, I don't understand what happened to the concept of "friendship". Oh well...I hope he chills out some and understands that this isn't a hollywood romance movie.
If he still doesn't get it......RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!Posted 11-21-2008 at 06:39 PM by HunnieBee
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Seriously, whats up with dudes these days? I went on a road trip last January with a group and a friend of a friend is still trying to make something happen though I haven't seen him since.
We need to hose them down or something.Posted 11-21-2008 at 11:15 PM by CityLights
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first off...LOL at DK, yark, and boon...
dani: lmao...you're so dumb!
as an update...he hasnt said it again... (thank god) but, i can see that he does really like me.. which is not good.. cuz I dont like him like that...yes, he is fione. but, I love my ryu. I dont want this guy to love me...or even think about loving me.. so ive been busting his bubble quite a bit lately... making it known that im not interested...in that way.Posted 11-22-2008 at 07:13 AM by brwnsuga0407
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You heard what 03elleinad said, ForestPosted 11-23-2008 at 12:17 AM by GoldenGirl
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-_- damn fag -_- better back the hell offPosted 11-25-2008 at 10:12 PM by bapbap18
