I LOVE Gackt and Kanye West and wish I wasn't poor from college either

It was correct, because I went back and changed it. hehe

now the question is, how much do you love to hate the women that love to hate you?

No need to apologize, 'specially when you're correct. ^


But girls, Zlou has a point. Why not take care of the homeboys first?

your still young dont even worry about it. I mean im 26 and sometimes have that feeling of lonelyness as well but just enjoy the moments u have and have some fun. Yeah im at that point where i want a serious relationship as well. Seeing all my friends with the GF and wifes make me sick! LOL makes me want a GF, just gotta wait til it happens.

don't beat your self up over not donating yet! You are too hot to worry this much about donating to the site.

Kisses, Kisses, Kisses and long hugs!!

Yes, it is his house but you are his child no matter how old you are. Legally you are an adult but that doesn't mean you stop being his child. It's his duty as a parent to make sure you are not in the streets at least. I am not saying parents have to carry their kids their whole life but being there for them is a lifelong commitment.

I am sure that argument will blow over, if you re read what you typed it wasn't about anything, lol. Seems like Dad just wants to control what he can't. If your parents are apart you might remind him of your Mom adding fuel to the fire. People with strong wills butt heads regardless of age or relationships, anyway. I would apologize and try to talk calmly and tell him you appreciate him being here for you . A lot of Dads are M.I.A.

I'm sorry to hear that but I agree with the others. Even if you are paying rent and even if you are 24,it's still your father's house. You might not like it but responsibility to family comes before responsibility to a stranger. If I lived at home, my parents would be the exact same way, believe me. I've butted heads with my father over petty things before when I lived with them. It's hard to admit when you are wrong too because you just don't want your father to treat you like a child anymore...which makes it even more confrontational between the two of you. He really did overreact though but the attitude you had just made it worse. To him, it just seems like you care more about a complete stranger than your brother and him. Maybe it's for the best since you are already paying rent to move somewhere else. I don't know if he'll kick you out, but maybe you should sit down and have a talk with him and tell him that it's obviously not working out and that if he could just help you move your things then you will be out of his hair. *shrugs*

Yes, I was too lazy to look up the spelling. hehe Thanks for the correction.

I agree, if you are paying rent anyways, and you can afford a tiny place (a studio, shared house, whatevah) just move. Parents and offspring over 18 are not meant to co-habitate. I am convinced it is better to struggle and work a little extra than to live with parents and put more stress on a relationship that none of us have a choice in .... you can't choose your parents but they will continue to be your parents for the rest of their lives. Most of the time, getting your own place is the only way to be your own person without constant parental friction.

So...when are you transferring to Sacramento? Better look into that!

I think it's pretty crazy that he would blow up. You were being pretty accommodating and the second you're not, he's got a problem with you and you're being the difficult one.

I also agree that you probably shouldn't pick fights w/him. I understand you get upset too, but when you're dealing w/someone who has such a short fuse, you're not going to get any where by adding fuel to the fire. Neither of you will. Someone has to be the bigger person and not let the argument escalate, or simply walk away.

As for the key thing and kids being home alone at 12....yeah it may be illegal, but people do it all the time. So legal or not, if this is happened on a regular basis (i.e. after school, while someone is at work), it shouldn't be a big deal now. With you, your dad's gf, and your dad working, I'm sure there are several instances when he's come home at night to find no one home for 20 or 30 mins.

I say, MOVE. I know that's hard, but you gotta figure something out. Even if you have to search craiglists for people who want roomies. This situation w/your dad doesn't seem like it's going to get better any time soon, and will probably only make things worse. Get out while your relationship is still in tact. The less stress you put yourself under, the better you'll be able to get the things done that you need to do.

Does that mean you swing both ways?? Teehee!

i believe u are refering to deuce bigalow : european gigalo, lol. its how i met him during his visit in australia.

yeah, malaysian chinese people like me don't even have the attention. and the male to female ratio here is 11:10. its gonna be made worst with this situation then, lol

Yeah its your dad's house, Alicia. He calls the shots, he may be right or wrong. Doesn't matter.

Congrats, Dies,

And who wouldn't hire you on the spot!

In some states you cannot leave a child alone until they reach the age of 12. I'm not sure what it is where you live. But, a parent can be charged with abandonment. So, I can see why your father needs someone at home. He should be watched by someone. I know how you feel too. He's not your son, so you shouldn't always be expected to take care of him.

I don't think blogging five posts out of 103 saying something about being attached is considered rubbing it in.