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Have you ever...
liked two people at ONCE? im in that situation (one girl for over 2 years) and another girl for about 3 months now...and they both are in love with me.

BUT im not in a relationship with either one (i stopped that nonsense when i was 19...i realized im way too young for that junk)

and eventhough they both know im not taken by them i still feel kinda guilty....

anyone ever been in this situation? what happened? what would YOU do? what DID you do O_o it sucks cause i truly do like both of them alot and im thinking i might want to get into a relationship for reals now but i cant find myself to cut ties with one to be with the other... =/
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Dont get into one with either. But you have to be upfront with them that your dating another girl inparticular.

These girls might also be holding out for you and have other offers. They deserve to know the full situation and decide if your where they want to be. Knowing that your dating another girl often can make them step up their game.
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i understand...but the only problem is one explicitly said "DONT TELL ME ANYTHING ABOUT ANYONE ELSE" lol...the other girl i could probably tell her but it would be real hard for her to actually HEAR it i think and it twist my guts just thinking about it...ack...never getting into this mess ever again
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i understand...but the only problem is one explicitly said "DONT TELL ME ANYTHING ABOUT ANYONE ELSE" lol...the other girl i could probably tell her but it would be real hard for her to actually HEAR it i think and it twist my guts just thinking about it...ack...never getting into this mess ever again
Then you know one girl has jealously issues. And you have guilt.

I think you know you need to make a choice.
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i kinda wish they both stopped liking me
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Sleep with their sisters.
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HAHA then i would DEFIANTLY be "that douche" then wouldn't i
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HAHA then i would DEFIANTLY be "that douche" then wouldn't i
I jest. Men are men, women are women. Both sexes do terrible things to others.

I don't really think your a douche.

Honestly, just tell both of them, its your life and you live it as you like. If they arent cool with it then it took care of your problem all togeather.

The trick is finding someone you want to stand still with.
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hey your alright - your alright.
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Do you like either of them and would want to pursue something?
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