By Angry Asian Man I mean a guy who is aware of the issue's he faces in this country whether it's social, political, media driven, romance wise and racial ?

Would you rather date an Asian guy who is more or less oblivious or takes the as long as it's not happening to me directly, I don't care stance.

Would you rather date an Asian guy who knows what he has to face and post's on AA socially driven websites like Model Minority and listens to fallout central podcast's and goes to protest's and rallies and etc.

I mean I consider myself an Angry Asian man, although in general I'm pretty sociable and laid back to everybody but when it comes to Asian American issue's I do become somebody else I think.

See, I like intelligent men.
So an asian living here and not being aware is borderline retarded I would say.

BUT being aware is not necessarily being angry.
I will see how people deal with it and decide then.

I got to know someone once who had real issues about all this race stuff and living in germany.
OK, he had good reasons to be angry, but when I tried to befriend him he used his anger against me in very hurtful ways.
I don't want this to happen again.

So my stance is that he certainly will be aware, I understand and tolerate anger to a certain degree but if the man is THAT angry that he eats up all the friendly souls around him like that one jackass did I will just FLEE again.


Btw, disclaimer for everyone who doesn't know me yet: that was only ONE man, I have met so many good ones too, so I am certainly not generalizing here.

Lieber stehend sterben als kniend leben!

Well I am the term "Angry Asian Man" as more of a slang then anything else. I don't think most Asian men who are aware are angry but they do get passionate when subjects that relate to this matter are brought up.

I kinda like the phrase, it has a ring to it.

Oh, I see, ok.

Just don't be as angry as the one dude and fuck a girl, go to a party with her afterwards where all her friends are kind to you and then tell her at the end of the day "your people are shitty people".
Like that man told me literally "Deutsche sind Scheiß Leute" (= germans are shitty people).
That changed my mind from being interested to feeling used and being angry as hell too.

Everything else is fine, the world needs more aware people.
Just don't make me a scapegoat because I happen to be white.

I personally would be skeptical as to why an "angry asian man" is looking for an interracial relationship. Especially considering many other militant asian types would be considering him a "sell-out ho" as I've heard it put. I don't want to be seen as a way of evening the odds with the white man, nor I do want to be thought of as giving-it-to-the-man-by-giving-it-to-his-women. The only reason I want to enter into a relationship is because of who I am, not what I am.

I don't want a spineless bastard who doesn't stand up for himself, but there's several ways of engaging in social change that doesn't have to equate to the angry man mentality. Being strong doesn't mean being belligerant. Being educated doesn't mean spouting rhetoric. Being sucessfull doesn't mean selling-out.

Personally, my favorite people are the ones who milk the system for all it's worth. Use every last bit of opportunity afforded to you and proving the naysayers wrong. That's my opinion of a strong person, period, race and sex aside.

I don't think women really give a shit about "angry Asian men." It doesn't really affect them and they probably don't even think about it. That is like a Native American man being angry at his plight in this country. Do you care about that? Most people don't care about things unless it affects them personally.

Losers always talk about trying their best. Winners go home and fuck the prom queen.

"When fascism comes to America, it will be wrapped in a flag, carrying a cross" - Sinclair Lewis

Uhm, I do care.
I just know that asian people have different experiences than me in this mainly white society and this alone makes me think of it.
Because I cannot have a deeper relationship when I leave out a main subject of the mans concerns.

I also care if someone does some good to others or is only concerned with his own wellbeing.
A respectable man has to care about his family at least and I have great sympathy for people who try to do something good for others too, so being active in a social movement, be it kids care, racial matters or whatever, would suit a man well IMO.

Like my first ex, he was active in the vietnamese church, I respected him very much for that and went to the church with him.
He tried to make life a bit more enjoyable for his fellow vietnamese and I admired him for it.

I would say it matters on the depth of the relationship. For me when I started dating a Chinese man I took it upon myself to explore what affects him and talk about it with him and learn as much as I could.

Did I care before we became serious? I would say I did, but not to level I do now. I always thought that equality should be a right, but I will admit I didn't understand all the ways in which Asian Americans were discriminated agaisnt.