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Old 05-12-2008, 12:26 PM
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this is not western culture mate, that's american culture, if that's what you want to call it.
I'll grant you the excuse of being 21, but still, your ignorance is baffling. And offensive.
Would you take me seriously if I told you (assuming I lived in Japan) that what i loved about asian culture was sushi and origami? and frankly, both sushi and origami are actually good things, unlike firearms and fried shitken.

back to the thread, i don't actually think that there's a type of women attracted to asian men. Look at the women on this forum, different looks, backgrounds, races, ages...liking different things about them.

and in my limited experience of asian men, apart from the ones that actually live in asia (ie-the real deal), the others don't have that much in common anyway when looking beyond the appearance.
A chinese guy brought up in a western country becomes more westernised and shares little similarities with his Beijing counterpart. I definitely sees it since joining this website.
And at this stage holds the same appeal to me as a blonde guy would if I was into blondes. The personality plays a big part, and the looks are just the main attraction at first but afterwards, it's like being with a guy from any other country.
The chinese-americans are like americans, the UK ones, like the other brits, with same interests and attitude. There are some little background differences but they are not as wide as it 1st appears.

I am interested in asian culture but won't really find it when spending time with a western country born-and-bred asian.
I guess the asian men raised in a western culture won't really be into a girl who is interested in asian culture as it has little to do with them and she'd probably know more about it than they do.

their life will be more about big macs and Brad Pitt than pork buns and Leon Lai.

I really want someone to disagree on this and prove me wrong by the way.


You are so wrong... I was born in Hong Kong and spent some years of my childhood there, but yet I'm nothing like brit people beside having good brit people manners(I dont do jaywalking). I grew up in Canada, I do like firearms, and fried chicken very much, however, as a honger man, not honger woman I still like Leon Lai, and Andy Lau alot! after all in Canada I was raised in a Chinese community, and went to Chinese school.

Even today, of course I have my hong kong(smart id ), and mainland China identities. To tell you the truth, I like a girl from hong kong, instead of a girl from here. I find the girls in hong kong to be elegant :P ,however, they don't like me because I grew up here.... to them I'm considered to be very uneducated, very dumb, very stupid, and very westernised.
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Thank God China's Olmypic Team always consistently win in the shooting related competitions. There's some hope for some Asians

If they keep winning, and show off their skills. I don't think there's a club near here without "the majority" giving me dirty biggot looks.
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If they keep winning, and show off their skills. I don't think there's a club near here without "the majority" giving me dirty biggot looks.
S'all good.

At many of the ranges I frequent, I also get quzzical looks from the local Elmer Fudds who like to dress up like Jesse James and do their Cowboy Action Shooting.

It's not because our band of ne-er do wells are the objects of racial bgiotry ( we're a mixed bunch) but because of cultural biases.

They "train" for make believe while we train for combat.

This is the case whether we are in Arizona, Nevada, North Dakota, or New Mexico.

Irregardless, more Asians need to be reppin' on this path.

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as a honger man, not honger woman I still like Leon Lai, and Andy Lau alot!
I'm a jook sing but I also agree that Lau Tak Wah jun hi ho lun ging.

Not so much into his music but most of his movies (God of Gamblers, Return Engagement, Moment of Romance, Saviour of the Soul, Escape From Hong Kong, Infernal Affairs, etc) are pretty entertaining and he's a pretty decent stuntman on top of all that.
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There seems to be a misunderstanding here, LOL A lot of guys I've met assume that because they are Asian and I have preference for Asian men that they all have an "automatic in" with me. Like who they are as a person doesn't matter, only the color of their skin. Which is not at all the case... not in the least. I know this goes for several of the other women around here too. It's like having a preference for someone with a specific hair color or job profession. Lots of women like firefighters, do you think that means they will sleep with just any ole firefighter? LOL And most Asian men I know prefer blondes, does that mean they will sleep with just any blonde? Well ok, perhaps those were bad examples

So... inner worth is still important and men are still individuals judged by their own merit. Race is not everything. You still have to woe a woman with your charm and personality. Luckily Hui you have both in abundance

It feels so GOOD to be so WRONG! Sometimes...
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I love the western culture a lot, firearms, fried chicken, but women is something I haven't decided about yet... I guess I'm like most of the strange honger men.

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I think it depends on the person really. Some women are attracted to farm animals :P but... anyways, I lived here for more than a decade, and a half, there are girls who are around my age that is attracted to me. A lot of times it's me who has to avoid these girls... regardless of what. I guess it's the Hong Kong "Chinese" men mentality :P


I'm 21 years old now. I'm still alone, and single. I rarely talks to girls who ask me things that are unrelated to work. Most the time I ignore them, but I suppose I don't mind making friends who are caucasian women. that's why I'm here I talk too little in person.

I love the western culture a lot, firearms, fried chicken, but women is something I haven't decided about yet... I guess I'm like most of the strange honger men.
Thats a Southern and Western mentality in the US. It's not like that on the east coast. I'm not knocking your likes, I'm just saying that's not really "western" culture.

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Beg to differ, Xiao Jie, but firearms, barbeque, metal music, and pick up trucks fucking ROCK!!!!!!

There are two kinds of men in this world.

Those who love personal weaponry ( which I consider synonomous with self sufficiency and independence) and faggots.

Thank God China's Olmypic Team always consistently win in the shooting related competitions. There's some hope for some Asians
It's fine if you love your firearms, but you don't need to use the word faggots in a derogative manner. Again, not knocking anyone's beliefs, but we can try and keep it civilized


I can really only speak for myself on this topic. I'm here on the site, but that doesn't mean I'm interested in any and all Asian guys. And it doesn't mean I won't give a guy from another background a chance. As Lila said, it's really about the character of the person. What the real issue I think isn't if the girl "loves" Asians or your an "exception", but if she's open minded enough on a whole to realize it's a big world out there and she shouldn't limit her possibilities regarding who she dates regarding race (and other things as well).

What if Prince Charming had never shown up? Would Snow White have slept in that glass coffin forever? Or would she have eventually woken up, spit out the apple, gotten a job, a health-care package and a baby from her local neighborhood sperm bank?

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