quiet a bit of the description sopunds like my ex, he also sees himself as a good guy, and has actually used the insult "You are a difficult person, and only *I* can ever truly love you, so be thankful I'm here."

plays the marytr, and complains im using him all the time

i told him i want a divorce and space from him, so im hardly twisting his arm behind his back to help with my weekly food shop, ect...
insists i make the choices, and gets upset with me... i dont want to make choices for him, nor am i his personal entitaner, as his other complaint was how boring life was with me since we meet, well what did expect from a shy recluse
