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Old 06-13-2008, 05:26 PM
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A little Help Please!!

Hi guys, I just went to this GAP store to buy some shorts, and there was this girl working there, and trust me, she has the most beautiful smile on this planet!! You know..the kind of genuine smile that makes your day!! She was trying to flirt with me, but GOD!! I was acting like such a dork..I couldn't really say that much, and ended up getting out of the store saying, "Have a nice Day." sigh..I really couldn't think about funny things to talk about.

Maybe she wasn't trying to flirt with me. Probably she was just trying to be friendly and be nice to her customers. I'm thinking about delivering a basket of flowers and a card to the store when she's working. If she's interested, she will write me back, right? I'm not gonna make it anonymous. I will write my name and home address.

She is not the type of the girl that is so beautiful that she is totally out of your league. I mean, she is not like a cover-girl, but she's very kind and adorable person that makes you just want to see her one more time. So what should I do?

By the way, she is caucasian and I'm Korean-Canadian. Do you think she will mind? I mean..my first girlfriend was caucasian too, but I am still afraid what she will think about me.

I was thinking about just going there and ask her out, but I just met her once. Maybe she will just freak out and start avoiding me. And I don't think I can do it when her co-workers are all watching me...

It should be OK as long as I don't make my letter anonymous, right?

Girls!! give me some advice!! Please~!!
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I'd wait on the flowers. Go back and shop some more. Chat her up. Feel her out (not like THAT) and see what kind of vibe you get from her. If it is consistently positive, then go get her Tiger!! rawr
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Yeah flowers are a bit too much, too soon.

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just go back and talk to her and ask her out if you're getting positive vibes, a huge NAY on the basket of flowers and a card, that screams pushy, lame and psychotic.


Satisfied? You know, I really hope so because God knows you need some satisfaction in life besides shagging Captain Cardboard and I never really liked you anyway and... and you have stupid hair. Spike
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Cover girls are overrated. The inside back cover is the most prized advertising page.

Make a few small purchases to chat her up first before you ask if you can fall into her gap.
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i love hearing these stories i like being nosie...i know you asked for girls help but dude! DONT SEND FLOWERS! just go up there and buy something else and talk to her, thats the best way good luck keep me posted, i like hearing these! hope you get her

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what should I say then??

what should I talk to her about?? I will have to pretend that I need some help with jackets maybe?? then what should I say? If I ask personal questions, then she will sense somethin is weird, right?

Or should I approach her by saying, "the shorts that you chose for me last time was so comfy and nice!" yeah...I think that's would be a good start...then again what should I say??

God...
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Ask her out for lunch? Say "Hey do you want to have lunch with me sometime?"

If she says no , then big deal who cares? You've got absolutely nothing to lose so go for it.
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fix0r has the right idea. Just ask her out.
and hey, I thought the flowers were a cute idea.

btw, nothing wrong with Canadians.
my ex is Chinese-Canadian, we're bff.
Even if he does pronounce "pasta" funny.
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Hey mate,

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