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Old 06-24-2008, 10:23 PM
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When can you say you love someone?

I think when you reveal:

That I am vulnerable, and all this layers of superficiality that I have been hiding under is utter bullshit. That I am willing and able to show you everything that I am, including the lies, the hurts, the savagery, the shame. And she accepts this person as he likewise accepts all of her.
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When you know you are willing to live with the other person for the rest of your life... WITHOUT SEX!!!

Actions are not taken for the sake of movement but to serve a purpose. Anything worth doing is worth doing well. Begin with the end in mind.
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When you know you are willing to live with the other person for the rest of your life... WITHOUT SEX!!!
I would have agreed in my early teens. I am too much of a horn dog to not to have sex for the rest of my life. Wait.. I will absolutely go insane if I cannot defile the one I love. It would be the biggest irony in life. Being able to spend the rest of my life with someone I love but I cannot make love /have sex /fuck the shit out of HER. - - this is Hell, I don't care what else Sartre says.
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When you know you are willing to live with the other person for the rest of your life... WITHOUT SEX!!!
Dude that sounds more like "dedication" and "sacrifice" than "Love"



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i think you should when you really mean it, not just for the hell of saying it.
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At gunpoint of course. Or after 10 years , 8 months on tuesday 7:30 pm , I don't know.

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Dude that sounds more like "dedication" and "sacrifice" than "Love"

More like a religious point of view to me.
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when it hurts not to.

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O.O I really liked that one.

My boyfriend told me he loved me after about a week of dating. And he meant it. I didn't say it back until the first time we had sex, a month later.

I think you just know when you love them. And I think that you will love them before you realize you do.

And my brain is weird, I knew that I wouldn't have sex with him until I was in love with him (being that it was my first time with anybody, and his).
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