Two words: burning effigy

Yeah it fucking sucks. No getting around that.

The best advice I've ever heard for this situation: "There's really nothing like it... nothing that I have ever felt, at least. Get drunk, wallow in it for a while. Don't avoid it, or it will fester. But don't drown in it: remember to get up in the end."

Took me over two years to get over my first. Made it harder cuz she seemed to move on right after without so much a glance back. I was a wreck for awhile but you do get over it. Eventually.

Best thing is not to dwell on it. Stay active. Doesn't matter with what. Keep your mind and body going and you'll come to see one day that the pain has subsided.

How big of a figure and how much fire?

awwww im sorry....heres a cyber hug for you ))))((((( ))))((((((


the bottom line is that is sucks.
thats it.
no way around it.

my advice may sound kind of strange..but i try to hit things head on...
meaning....
embrace the pain, dont run from it, bury it, medicate it etc etc.....

just know that it is there, that it is a learning experience, youve already taken the great steps of getting rid of reminders.....eventually your memories will not be so painful. Dont beat yourself up, blame yourself, try to win her back ....just let yourself heal, be nice to yourself, enjoy your friends.

I'm sorry!! Break-ups suck!! Wallow in it for a while, but then move on even if you don't feel it. Delete her number so you won't be tempted to text or call. Then stay as busy as humanly possible until it stops hurting!! It's gonna take a while....

I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. It truly can be an awfully painful experience. Things that have worked for me; don't try to contact her, try not to reciprocate any contact from her (it's for the best), and surround yourself with friends and family who care about you.
Keep your head up, things will get better.
Best,
Mike

Sorry to hear about your break-up as well. What I usually do is surround myself with as many friends as I can. If finances are in order, we even take a trip, just to relax and clear our minds of the break-up, doesn't hurt that a new environment is a great place to flirt and get back to normal. I wouldn't recommend the drinking, cause from experience, you end up feeling worse after that.

Some other things you can do are don't return her calls, stay as busy as you can, even if you have to find new hobbies or just finding work to do, and get out and cruise the town! Hope you feel back to normal soon!

Sorry to hear about your first break-up, you seem to be handling it rather well I would say, take the time to cry, if need be....you will defintely feel better. Just one good one, don't make it a habit though...other than that, hobby time!!