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Old 07-23-2008, 04:37 PM
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Would you sue your ex for breaking up wedding plan?

Would you sue your ex for breaking up wedding plan?

This woman sued a man for breaking up the wedding. She said that sacrificed her high paying job to move to his city to marry him. She sued him for 150k and won the case.

Jilted Bride Awarded $150K After Wedding Called Off - News Story - WSB Atlanta

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I think her case is crap.

But, I think that the one who calls off the wedding should be forced to pay for any expenses that are wedding related.

For example, her family shells out $50k for a reception and he leaves her at the alter. He's on the hook for that 50k.

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OK, wait. In the article it says he payed for some of her debt to discover later she has even more.
Did she lie at him?
If so then she didn't deserve the amount the court graced her with IMO.

If someone is lying or withholding a truth which is important for the other person then I would say if the other one leaves then it's totally justified.
Because if people hide their true indentity or circumstances of life then the "contract" (engagement) came about under false pretentions.

In this case it's obnoxious to sue that person who doesn't allow to be lied at.

Well, if a man left me I would not sue. I would just think it's better he left in time before I am legally bound to him.
Because, after all, if he isn't convinced he should marry me he better doesn't.
I would be angry that he notices it that late though if he calls off the marriage which is already planned.

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Okay, well she didn't deserve 150k....that's just crazy. Also, she was the one hiding information. She wasn't keeping it real, I would have left too but I would have told her face to face. Let her know she is the reason we aren't getting married....MAYBE we could postpone it, make her ass get a job AGAIN and work off that debt before we get married....See how fast she does that....
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wow i wonder how the court totally ignore the fact that she lied about her financial status to her ex-fiance. that is just messed up.
the courts are now making proposing marriage even scarier then before, cause damned if you cancel the wedding....


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wow i wonder how the court totally ignore the fact that she lied about her financial status to her ex-fiance. that is just messed up.
the courts are now making proposing marriage even scarier then before, cause damned if you cancel the wedding....
I agree wholeheartedly!
The article sounds to me as if she was majorly gold digging there.
The poor sap fled just in time to find himself still paying?
And what a ridiculous sum!!!
OK, his way to say good bye was maybe not the most elegant way, but I somehow totally don't find that is worth any cash.
I am actually outraged and understand better why some men fear marriage so much now.
This is beyond messed up, I lack in words here.
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It almost sounds like a con job to me! Figures it's Georgia.

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Thats the way it used to be. Calling an engagement off is effectively breach of contract for the girl's family. It used to be that the girl was stigmatised for the rest of her life afterwards and that no man would touch her with a ten foot pole. Usually the father would hunt the man down and either sue his ass off and force him to sign a humiliating document that the father would then show to the next woman the man engaged, or kill him.
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What the HELL!

First off, this jury awarding money to a woman who was not honest regarding her financial status is TOTAL PIECE OF SHIT! She is a total gold digger, I hope that her ugly face gets plastered throughout the internet so no other man has the misfortune to get conned by her!

Second of all, I'm SO not going to marry anyone!
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