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How many chances do you give her/himr?
I'm a guy, I try only once. - 15.38%
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I'm a guy, I try only twice or thrice. - 26.92%
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I'm a guy, I try till she is ready to cry. - 0%
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Old 07-27-2008, 07:17 PM
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I am so confused

I'm actually confused about this MILF. I've known her all my life. She is in her 40 and I am in my late 20's by the way. ANyway, sometimes she tends to touch me but not sexually but just lightly places her hands on my thigh and my forearm. But it's not exactly FRIENDLY TOUCH. AH.it's really hard to explain, but the touch is not exactly sexual but not exactly FRIENDLY touching either. ANd sometimes I catch her looking at me and she turns her head. This happend often recently. And the weird thing is sometimes when I say "Hi" to her she says, "Hi" back happily, but sometimes when I try to say Hi to her she just passes by intentionally. AHHHH I don't know what's going on.
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Anyone else wants to take this?
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Well personally, I wouldn't touch a guy anywhere unless I was really into him. It depends on the type of person you are, so I don't know if your gal is the touchy feely lovey type or comes out of her shell just when you're around.

And the touch you describe sounds sensual. Not outwardly sexual, but seductive, maybe? lol hell I'm just as bad at this as you are.

Sexy is being yourself...nothing more, nothing less.
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It sounds to me you know what shes trying to say, and but you want us to spell it out for you anyways.

She sounds like a pro, being much older. Clearly the paying attention then ignoring you thing is just fucking with your head.

Anytime a girl touches you in that way shes subtly hinting that she wants you. So I say go for it, provided she doesn't have a husband and her kids don't start calling you daddy.

Is that what you wanted to hear?
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step 1. ask her out.

step 2. guide the conversation towards more intimate topics, but to a level both of you are comfortable with.

step 3. ????

step 4. profit.
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Well I can say I would never touch a guy on the thigh that I am not interested in.
I think you should ask her out!

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I'm actually confused about this MILF. I've known her all my life. She is in her 40 and I am in my late 20's by the way. ANyway, sometimes she tends to touch me but not sexually but just lightly places her hands on my thigh and my forearm. But it's not exactly FRIENDLY TOUCH. AH.it's really hard to explain, but the touch is not exactly sexual but not exactly FRIENDLY touching either. ANd sometimes I catch her looking at me and she turns her head. This happend often recently. And the weird thing is sometimes when I say "Hi" to her she says, "Hi" back happily, but sometimes when I try to say Hi to her she just passes by intentionally. AHHHH I don't know what's going on.
reciprocate her actions and see what she does...
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Yeah, whatever Andrew says. Touch her back!
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Flip her and dick her. Then ask questions later. "Oh, that's not what you wanted?"

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