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Gaming vs Courtship

Okay, just as a note. This forum has already lowered my productivity somewhat, almost to the degree that the MR2 owner's club boards have. But anyway.

To all of you out there who read the title and knew exactly what I'm talking about, read on.

Why is it that when a man courts a woman, he gets burned? Must he go back to wearing his gamming hat?
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also, i dont think a man that courts a woman will always get burned, it depends on whom he is courting and if she is responding.

courtship is part of the fun of the mating ritual

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[quote=Jovi;407064]Okay, just as a note. This forum has already lowered my productivity somewhat, almost to the degree that the MR2 owner's club boards have. But anyway.

To all of you out there who read the title and knew exactly what I'm talking about, read on.

Why is it that when a man courts a woman, he gets burned? Must he go back to wearing his gamming hat?[/QUOTE]


I guess you are thinking courting a woman and playing a chick 2 different things. If I understand what you are saying, when you court a chick, you are not pursuing any other chicks. When you are gaming, you are pursing multiple chicks.

There is no rule to court a chick exclusively. Most people don't date exclusively well into the dating process... so, you are basically putting all your eggs in one basket which is not a wise move and further, by doing so, you have the potential pit fall of appearing desperate and needy to the girl. Girls too, like a challenge.

"Older and wiser" never applies to me.

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I agree with your take on this..or the way you worded it...

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I think courtship is later on in the dating process....

flirting, dating, experiencing different people and personalities etc come first...
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also, i dont think a man that courts a woman will always get burned, it depends on whom he is courting and if she is responding.

courtship is part of the fun of the mating ritual
I find that women respond much more so to game than they do to courtship. Perhaps I should've clarified what gaming means?
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I find that women respond much more so to game than they do to courtship. Perhaps I should've clarified what gaming means?
Yes, please.
Maybe you even want to elaborate what courtship means to you?
And do you notice behavioristical or characteristic patterns in women who react well to your game?
Just being curious.

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Yes, please.
Maybe you even want to elaborate what courtship means to you?
And do you notice behavioristical or characteristic patterns in women who react well to your game?
Just being curious.
I don't game anymore. The next gal I commit to I'm marrying.

Anyways,

Courtship is when a man seeks a woman as a mate. He treats her kindly with respect, pursuits her, and is basically a nice guy to her. He attempts win her over through this type of behavior.

Game is usually done by the younger guys who aren't interested in settling down. His soul goal here is to get her in the sack. He relies solely on his raw ability to attract her sexually. And is pretty much an asshole while doing it.
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Okay, just as a note. This forum has already lowered my productivity somewhat, almost to the degree that the MR2 owner's club boards have. But anyway.

To all of you out there who read the title and knew exactly what I'm talking about, read on.

Why is it that when a man courts a woman, he gets burned? Must he go back to wearing his gamming hat?[/QUOTE]


I guess you are thinking courting a woman and playing a chick 2 different things. If I understand what you are saying, when you court a chick, you are not pursuing any other chicks. When you are gaming, you are pursing multiple chicks.

There is no rule to court a chick exclusively. Most pe