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Ok, I just got done watching the Dr. Phil show. I was just channel surfin and saw this... So here are a couple of guys who obviously have large egos. I am going to stay unbiased since i want people's opinion on this... so what do you think of these 2 guys and their egos?
Are there very any straight, male audience members on Dr. Phil?
As much as this makes some males look bad, it also makes women look bad. Ladies, why would you give up so easily and so quickly? For that reason, I can't even place all the blame on the guy.
The second guy is sad. He just doesn't want to give these women the opportunity to realize he isn't worth their time.
Yes, approaching women w/confidence does work. DUH.
"I am American mentally with Japanese tendencies." - Lupe Fiasco
"Movies are fake." - Richard Walter, Professor and Screenwriting Faculty Chairman, UCLA
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." - Eleanor Roosevelt
The first guy has obvious low self esteem issues. To compensate, he constantly talks about his self-worth. Always mentioning his stats. The more he continues to do this, the more he'll nurture these narcisistic behaviors. Constantly adoring himself so that he doesn't have to deal with his inferiority complex. He's a loser.
The second guy is just doing his thing. I don't think he has such an ego problem. He does boast of his accomplishments. But he's not so much of an egomaniac. He knows what he wants and tries to be efficient in trying to get it. Even if it's at the cost of others. Perhaps he has intimacy issues. Where he's afraid of being close to someone for fear of getting hurt? Or perhaps he just likes to be with a lot of different women.
If they never practice being in a long-term relationship, how do they expect to be good at it? If they ever settle down, they better find some girl who has a lot of tolerance or doesn't have much of an identity for herself. I don't think strong women will stand for their selfish behaviors.
I sort of feel sorry for them. They don't know the joys of being in a meaningful relationship. Nothing beats having sex with someone you're in love with. It's the best.
The first guy is an obnoxious douchebag who's obviously insecure.
I see nothing wrong with the second guy. Everything he says is just matter of fact and he's just being honest about what he wants and how he achieves it.
"The hottest places in hell are reserved for those who in times of great moral crisis maintain their neutrality."
"When fascism comes to America, it will be wrapped in a flag, carrying a cross" - Sinclair Lewis
these guys are essentially players trying to act like they're alpha males. the first guy is obviously trying to compensate for something. and i understand how the second guy can come off as creepy, but look, what he says about the "caveman approach" is right.
when he talks about that, his intended audience are not single women who keep getting hit on by guys they're not interested in, his intended audience are those guys that haven't found the will to step it up and stick their necks out to meet women. there are girls on this site itself that have complained that some guys don't step up and initiate. i mean, don't do what this guy does and tell a girl she shouldn't be eating this or that, and don't tell a girl you want to kiss her with tongue within the first few minutes. i understand what he's trying to do - he's trying to initiate conversation, but there are probably better topics even so. when he talks about how guys shouldn't put girls on a pedestal and how there are girls trying to fit into jeans that are too small, he's trying to tell guys out there that girls are really just as insecure as they are. this is what a lot of guys need to understand.