I'm not sure about everyone else in here, but have you ever noticed that while in a relationship, you somehow find/meet more people who seem to be interested in you versus when you are single?

I hate it! While in almost every relationship I've been in, I had numerous romance interests (not boasting or bragging) come around my way without any effort. But the moment you become single, it's like almost impossible to find a date!

Am I just making this up in my own mind or has this happened to anyone else?

Lately, I've come to the realization that I'm not getting any younger, and that I have to start searching for a potential life partner. It just frustrates me to no end that I'm having such a hard time finding someone decent to even sit down and chat with! ESPECIALLY IN NYC!!! Maybe my standards have become higher by specifically searching for someone with better goal oriented quality and a genuine kindness rather than just any relationship? The first thing I thing I ask myself nowadays is, "Is this woman marriage material?"

Is it wrong to think that way?

Haha, It's your mojo. Your pheromones are being released. Women can smell it and realize that you've been having sex. Women know that you are wanted by other women. Eventually, you don't release it anymore. Till you sleep with a different woman. You are also probably exuding confidence because you already have a women and don't have to prove anything. This combination, pheromones and confidence makes women attracted to you when you aren't available, isn't life cruel? haha

So should I go and sleep with some prostitutes to get my pheromones up? haha...

yeah, life is cruel!

That's what playas do, sleep with different women to keep it rolling. If they hit a dry spell, some might sleep with prostitutes. Anything to keep the mojo flowin'

Prostitutes are not my cup of tea. Life is cruel for us guys with no game. j/k Haha

Of course it is not wrong to think that way! You have to always ask questions and make sure YOU know deep down if she is right, and is she for marriage or not is one of the important questions. I ask myself that all the time, I have asked that since I was 18.....I was forwards.

I also agree with you above. When I am dating, I have so much interest. When I am single, I noticed it drops off a little.

"I cry like a lil bitch!" - Harabuji. lol. 감사합니다...

well, to be quite honest... I've never been with a prostitute. Just the thought of it disgusts me. I don't think that I consider myself to have "No game" I can sweet my talk my way into heaven. I just don't know what this "dry spell" is about!

kaku has no women looking his way, who wants an invisible, mentally ill whiteboy troll.

Satisfied? You know, I really hope so because God knows you need some satisfaction in life besides shagging Captain Cardboard and I never really liked you anyway and... and you have stupid hair. Spike

I've had a few of my recently married guy friends tell me this as well. I agree w Tazo, you are more relaxed/confident when you're not having to "play the game" so you become more attractive to women. Women have keen intuition, they can typically tell what guys intentions are. When anyone is single and looking, they are more desparate or better, "trying too hard", as soon as that aspect is gone, they are much more attractive. Too bad we can't act like that when we are in that "dry" spell.

"Live Free or Die"