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Thoughts about previous men ive been with were in the front of my mind today, and thats why im doing this thread.
I dont usually look back in this way, but today was fun, remembering the times ive had and the things ive done, which i suppose makes me the way i am now.
The past should always be used to learn, and never to dwell.
Anyway, the men that stick out the most for me are those that know how to stimulate my mind. Yes i love the body stimulation too. Its just that my mind is the way to really get me going.
The games and the way they can read me like a book. Knowing what i want, and often depriving me of getting it in order to work me up even more. Sometimes they were able to bend me to their way sexually just by using the mind.
Those men are dangerous, naughty, damn right dirty, and full of pure filth..
Fuck i love it!
Okay they are often total bastards too. But the mental edge they had made me want them. I didnt fall for them.. i just WANTED THEM! And they knew it!
There hasnt been many men that have managed to do this to me, just the odd few, and i suppose im going to sound a right bloody tart here, but out of all the men ive had that few are almost classed as being rare.
The sex was hell awesome. The mental fucks were even better.
They have the gift of being able to make you act out your deepest sexual desires no matter how raunchy, dirty or sick............. They also make you act out theirs too
Do you prefer the mental stimulation, even if the men/women are total arseholes, or would you like to have the lovie dovie soppy shit day in day out?
Me? I prefer a mix of both. But god knows that the mix is often more rare to find than the head fuckers.
Have you been the head fucker, or have you had yours fucked?
Have you dreamed of being this way but never had the balls/backbone?
Have you wanted that excitement from another but too afraid to go after it, so settled for the tender ones?
Have you fallen for a head fucker? If so what happened? Did it last?
Remember im not talking about those that mess with your mind in a nasty or hurtful way, thats another thread altogether.. Im talking about those that use the mind to stimulate to the point that youre driven crazy and full of lust ready to explode!
Anyway, the men that stick out the most for me are those that know how to stimulate my mind. Yes i love the body stimulation too. Its just that my mind is the way to really get me going.
The games and the way they can read me like a book. Knowing what i want, and often depriving me of getting it in order to work me up even more. Sometimes they were able to bend me to their way sexually just by using the mind.
The sex was hell awesome. The mental fucks were even better.
They have the gift of being able to make you act out your deepest sexual desires no matter how raunchy, dirty or sick............. They also make you act out theirs too
Have you been the head fucker, or have you had yours fucked?
I love those guys who can mentally stimulate me.
I've been mind fucked, and glad of it!
Have you dreamed of being this way but never had the balls/backbone?
In any relationship there are boundaries.
You recognize those men who don't go there,,and won't allow you to go there, either. Duds.
7. Not knowing about her need to be naughty. Sometimes she needs to get in touch with her adulterated side. In fact, research has found that women are more aroused by explicit fantasies than romantic ones. Forget the prince on a white horse or canoodling on the beach. (well, not always)
Many women enjoy all sorts of erotica. Don’t be afraid to play up her far-from-virtuous visual nature.
8. Thinking she's supposed to act like a porn star. When I was the co-host of “Sex Files” on Sirius’ Maxim Channel, I couldn’t believe how many questions we received from men about how to get their lover to do something specific in bed.
As seen in porn films, many men expect their lovers to fulfill their every fantasy. Remember that porn is fantasy, not reality. Expecting her to act like a porn star is simply not fair.
(But, we do like fantasy, too! Find a balance between the two that will suit both of you.) Have you wanted that excitement from another but too afraid to go after it, so settled for the tender ones?
If I can't have what I really want in a relationship, what's the point?
I think those who settle are the ones who end up cheating or divorced.
Compatibility is extremely important.
Have you fallen for a head fucker? If so what happened? Did it last?
I did, and it was fantastic!
It lasted until he was tragically killed.
It was a whole lifetime of joy in a short few years!
I'll never settle for anything less.
"Some kids piss their name in the snow. Chuck Norris can piss his name into concrete."
nice, dardi. i love the cerebral connections men and women can have, unfortunately as you've noticed the rarity of among men who are capable of giving it, it's also rare to find a woman capable of appreciating it and receptive enough to flow with it.
my current boyfriend is a master of the mental fuck...but he doesn't always use it for good, which I don't like. I'm a pretty straight forward, trusting, no-games kinda person, so I can be sensitive to being played.
But I'm not gonna lie, I do love the challenge, and the frustration between us at times. It's definately not boring! Although there is a limit that I prefer.
nice, dardi. i love the cerebral connections men and women can have, unfortunately as you've noticed the rarity of among men who are capable of giving it, it's also rare to find a woman capable of appreciating it and receptive enough to flow with it.
Indeed risky, youre are correct. Both sexes finding eachother is very limited. But when it happens it is worth what ever hastle it takes getting there. Except when its the odd one, like i met.. long time ago now.. phwooar. That was instant! I mean as soon as id laid eyes on him it began, and he felt the same. Ive never experienced anything like that before, and im happy to say i dont think id want to ever again, because that would take the greatness out the fantastic memories i have.
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Originally Posted by mimi
my current boyfriend is a master of the mental fuck...but he doesn't always use it for good, which I don't like. I'm a pretty straight forward, trusting, no-games kinda person, so I can be sensitive to being played.
But I'm not gonna lie, I do love the challenge, and the frustration between us at times. It's definately not boring! Although there is a limit that I prefer.
Finding the right mix is the tricky part. Its a shame we cant take parts out of all the partners weve had and shove them into a machine of sorts and then cook on full heat until ready to make the perfect partner. Ahh if wishes were kisses id of had millions by now
Indeed risky, youre are correct. Both sexes finding eachother is very limited. But when it happens it is worth what ever hastle it takes getting there. Except when its the odd one, like i met.. long time ago now.. phwooar. That was instant! I mean as soon as id laid eyes on him it began, and he felt the same. Ive never experienced anything like that before, and im happy to say i dont think id want to ever again, because that would take the greatness out the fantastic memories i have.
lol. i know exactly what you mean. i am so grateful that person that i shared this type of thing with is not in my life anymore. i just really got to see different sides to him at the end of our mind fucking. it was certainly becoming less appealing and i was able to have closure and leave my love for him behind in the past. i really do not know what would have happened if we did make a "successful" try at a real relationship. i might have killed him and/or myself. lol. mind fuckers can just really turn you up and i am not even really sure how to explain it. i am pretty much over all the unique mind fuckers who have been in my life that i had fallen in love with. thank god. my heart and head are clear.
