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A great take on the "Nice Guy" dilemma.


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That reminds me of a guy I knew back in college. He would constantly complain the same way about being a "nice guy" that can't get women yet he was really two-faced, whined ALL the f*ckin' time about really petty things or situations he got HIMSELF into and then cried about being the victim when it was totally his own damn fault. I remember when one of my girl friends lost her necklace in the parking lot of the dorm. It was very special to her, I believe it was her grandmother's, anyway, this guy offered to go out there and help her look for it. I thought that was very nice of him at the time. They were out there for hours but never found it. Later, he was bad mouthing my friend to me and another girl saying how annoying it was to be out there trying to find a necklace to appease some girl and even mocked her for crying about it. My friend and I looked at each other and said, "Then why the hell did you go out there and bother looking if you didn't even want to sincerely help her out??" Know what his response was? He snapped back, "It's called being a NICE GUY!" Oh my god. What little respect for him we had we totally lost at that moment. That moment has always stuck in my head and that's why I totally don't believe it when a guy has to constantly proclaim to the world that he's a "nice guy." It's just a bullshit excuse.


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That reminds me of a guy I knew back in college. He would constantly complain the same way about being a "nice guy" that can't get women yet he was really two-faced, whined ALL the f*ckin' time about really petty things or situations he got HIMSELF into and then cried about being the victim when it was totally his own damn fault. I remember when one of my girl friends lost her necklace in the parking lot of the dorm. It was very special to her, I believe it was her grandmother's, anyway, this guy offered to go out there and help her look for it. I thought that was very nice of him at the time. They were out there for hours but never found it. Later, he was bad mouthing my friend to me and another girl saying how annoying it was to be out there trying to find a necklace to appease some girl and even mocked her for crying about it. My friend and I looked at each other and said, "Then why the hell did you go out there and bother looking if you didn't even want to sincerely help her out??" Know what his response was? He snapped back, "It's called being a NICE GUY!" Oh my god. What little respect for him we had we totally lost at that moment. That moment has always stuck in my head and that's why I totally don't believe it when a guy has to constantly proclaim to the world that he's a "nice guy." It's just a bullshit excuse.
He's such a "nice guy"... that's tooooo friggin funny!
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yup,tends to put one off nice guys for life

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If a guy HAS to go around boosting that he is a nice guy and telling every chick he meet that girls never get him. Well that kind of guy is on the top of the list of Assholes!

I have too many guy friends that I thought where my friends but then they end up asking me out or telling me how they really feel. They are less assholes because they end up showing me their real feelings.

Give me a straightforward nice guy, jerk, or loser any day. But PLEASE, PLEASE keep the fake "nice guy out of the line! I really have no time for them!


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any guy that tries to be friends with a girl with the ulterior motive of getting in her panties that way, is a pussy. lol

better off to making intentions clear early on from the beginning.
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any guy that tries to be friends with a girl with the ulterior motive of getting in her panties that way, is a pussy. Lol

better off to making intentions clear early on from the beginning.
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any guy that tries to be friends with a girl with the ulterior motive of getting in her panties that way, is a pussy. lol

better off to making intentions clear early on from the beginning.
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