I'm not talking about the good, hardworking, recently arrived immigrants, who go make a huge effort , and even go to ESL classes in th evening after working 10 hours.

I'm talking about the FOBs that have been in north america for at least 10 years, but STILL speak with a horrid accent, HATE and refuse to date asian women, but get vehemently angry and abusive when when white girls don't take interest in them. After said white girl, rejects them, said asian FOB will go ranting and raving how northamerica hates him cause he's asian.

The same bitter asian FOB will then give you a sour and mean glare when he sees you dating a beautiful white women.


Like I don't know how YOU guys thought processes are, but when I see a good looking asian guy with a beautiful women, I'm proud and I think to myself- Yeah I'm happy for that dude.

But the angry bitter asian FOB will glare at you and say -what's he got that I don't have! Why does the FOB behave this way? Why can't he be happy for you?


I always go out of my way and extend an olive branch when I see a FOB.
And the good FOBS are have good hearts and always respond in kindness.

But I don't know, lately I've run across and inordinate amount of "bitter asian fobs " for some reason and they're just soooo rude to me and my girlfriend.

Have you guys experienced the same thing?

Like, you see them standing next to the wall at a club or something bythemselves and you feel kinda sorry for them and you say - "what's up man?" or something and they FOB will just all of a sudden act rude to you and the whole night just stare and you and your girlfriend agrily.

WTF? this is a strange world we live in.

This is your fourth post?

Either you are showing a lot of anger early on, or you are just trolling...

Yeah, I guess I am upset.

Like why would a FOB get all rude and abusive when I'm extending a welcoming gesture?

I just feel bad for them, so I try to be nice. Why are the FOBS getting so bitter at me for?

I love a little righteous indignation as much as the rest person, but what the hell does being FOB have to do with anything? While I've yet to meet every person in the entire world, something tells me that being bitter or having generally shitty personality traits can be found in the entire spectrum of people. Imagine that! And calling out people for their accents is just rude.

If this is your way of showing generosity or niceness, no wonder people don't want to have anything to do with it.

"Usually when people are sad, they don't do anything. They just cry over their condition. But when they get angry, they bring about a change."

- Malcolm X -

sounds like you're the one who's bitter.

How so? I'm the one extending an olive branch. I feel sorry for them, so I always take it upon myself to greet them.

So be default, aren't they the ones that are bitter?

Man, maybe it's because I'm really goodlooking for an asian, so they might feel a little threatened by my handsomeness?

You are patronizing.
You seem to think low of people who are different than those you prefer.
You act out on people who you think are inferior.
You show this in gestures.

You get what you deserve then.

I would also get rude if some random stranger "donated" too much pity for me.
Who are they that they can that quickly decide if I am to pity or not?
They mostly need it to boost the own ego, saying to themselves "look what a good human I am, donating pity for that sorry soul".
An immigrant knows that bullshit already, he will detect it even sooner than me.

Not everyone you perceive as pityworthy will feel that this judgement over his life is correct and then you get what you get.

Lieber stehend sterben als kniend leben!


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sounds like you don't know how to communicate with people.