All my life I have loved Native American men. Always like the dark hair and eyes especially long hair. Then 4 years ago I met my Japanese boyfriend (who has long black hair) and was blown away. Ever since meeting him, it is like I have asian radar (as he says). Its like I woke up to their beauty that I had not been aware of before. I don't know if I could date a white guy again! (Except maybe Johnny Depp).

my first crush on non-asian females was Cindy Crawford. To this day, I still think shes super hot. :P

My first crush was Kim Richards, a child actress back when I was 4. There was this Disney film called "Return from Witch Mountain". I though she was great with all her magical powers and all. Now that I look back at her pictures I can tell that I had good taste even as a toddler. My testosterone was developed already.
But my first real crush started when I was in Elementary school, age 6. She was the typical attractive girl found in every grade: pretty, smart, sporty, rich and because of that very spoiled. Me, well I was the typical geek, wore glasses and because I was the only asian, the one who could be "used" to get good grades. Yeah she used me, them dumped me and this idiot here "loved" her for 11 straight years. Psychologically and emotionally that hurt me a lot and I don't think I have recovered yet. I don't think much about her nowadays, but my dreams (more like nightmares) always betray me: she keeps haunting me while sleeping and being mean or just ignoring me.
..sigh..I need more porn to ease the pain now.

How Bergie met me:

In grade 6 a popular ukrainian girl liked me and we went steady. I was at the bottom of the popular poll then. We didnt talk for 3 months then a party came. We slow danced to Roxettes' IT MUST'VE BEEN LOVE and that was our song. I also did the running man, roger rabbit and electric slide to impress her and her friends--they went nuts. So did the guys actually.

At the end of the night when our parents were about to pick us up, i just went up to her and kissed her on the lips. Everyone went berserk. All the guys went up to me, and the girls went up to her like we hit a winning goal. It was the first time anyone in our grade kissed someone.

The next day it was all over school and KID became the man, which continues to this day. It was the start of my journey to awesomeness.


To Maria from KID

My first non-asian was adolescent puppy love in the 4th grade with a cute little southern belle when I grew up with the south. We were even called g/f and b/f .

Around high school I met a cute red headed girl that hung around the same area with my friends but went to a different school. She liked me, I liked her so we hooked up but later she moved to Ohio from California . The funny thing is my buddy who was your typical preppy abercrombie and fitch looking blonde hair/blue eyed white guy was trying to fix me up with his cute younger sister. I didn't know it until afterwards but he said he wanted us to be technically "bros" hehe.

After that period my experiences with non-white women diminished significantly and I dated a large pool of asian-americans that were mostly ethnic Korean and Chinese. I kind of regret this era because I didn't pursue a lot of interest coming from other girls that I came across.

I haven't dated a non-asian in a while. The last girl I was seeing was a a half thai/half aussie here in Thailand.

I guess I am unlike some of the other guys on this board in that I have no particular strong preference for just seeing non-asian women. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman and I have dated more asian women in general.

I was about 4.
My mom and i were on the train going to visit my granparents.
He sat a few seats away from us, was about from 20-30 probably Japanese as i can remember.
Had the most beautiful eyes.
I constantly stared at him (you know how kids are).
And then he gave me such a beautiful smile.
I wanted to go sit in his lap...
But my mommy wouldn't let me

His name was Roy Kim.... we chatted online from a dating site about 4 1/2 yrs ago and I wasnt into him at all... he bugged me and bugged me to meet up, and I finally gave in. (previously wasnt into asian men at all) I met him and took one look and was in love! We dated for 4 yrs... ever since, I am pretty much only attracted to asian men! (love koreans mostly) but open to all ethnicities... hehe... know any cute single asian men in Toronto? LOL

When you were four? That's creepy.....

Well I don't differ that much because I would have to say I was 6 or 7 when my eyes locked on my friend's mom. I was a cougar hunter since the beginning....

my 1st grade teacher! ahhhhhh i still remember how she looks, i wish i can be put to sleep and have a visual print out picture of how she looked and have someone find her for me! so i can be like "i'm all grown up now" LOL she had to be in her earl