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mis-leading
i get the impression that an ASSERTIVE GUY is outgoing and extravert....i totally dont believe in that at all.
I'm timid, meek, and prefer anominity. but i will also say i am assertive.
see , i use to believe in the first statement: assertive guys are extrovert and all that...
... but then i begin to change...i realise that i cannot be someone else...it takes toooo much effort to change the whole being that i am just to be more assertive...
by working with who i am...i have become assertive without becoming someone else...
so now, i might be timid and might even come across as shy...but i use that to my advanttage and...the results are perfect...girls think i'm courageous when i chat to them directly and they think its cute.
USE what you have and learn to work it.
peace
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