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Old 04-13-2008, 02:50 PM
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Ok. I have a question.....

There's this dude that I met at the begining of the year and I tried talking to him but it seemed like he wasn't intrested. Now that I'm in my second semester we share a class and now he randomly speaks to me after class and when I see him on campus. Whenever we speak it's about the most random subject and then he stands there akwardly like he wants the conversation to continue but I leave cause I'm busy. I think he's just making small talk but my friends think he likes me. What do you think? Am I right or am I just being oblivious or is he just trying to make friends?

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Old 04-13-2008, 03:22 PM
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Your friends are probably right. After all, they know you and they've met this guy.

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Old 04-13-2008, 03:28 PM
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I agree, you're friends are probably right. Maybe you should make the first move and ask him out for coffee or something. He could be just really shy. Nothing wrong with a woman making the first move

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Don't wait around for him to make the move because he may be too shy or scurred. TAKE THE INITIATIVE AND ASK HIM OUT. You won't have any doubt at least when he gives you his answer. Take the bull by the horns (or pants) and drag him to your cave.

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Yeah, I totally agree. Next time he does that thing of coming up and talking to you about something, when the conversation lulls and you have to get going, say something like, "Hey, I'd love to continue this conversation, but I have to get to class now. Would you like to meet me for coffee before class on Friday?" or something else of that nature. He'll more than likely say yes. If your friends are all saying he's interested, he more than likely is.

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Kriz, what is with you about this "random conversations?" I mean really. Its not random, he may be trying to show interest. I swear, you want a man to pursue ya, but when he does, you find it too random for you to handle. GO AFTER THE MAN!! Its bad enough you are too afraid to speak to Bio Dude, and now you think that Morning Wood talking to you is "random." I swear I am gonna hurt you if you don't grow a set and go get what you want........

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I agree, you're friends are probably right. Maybe you should make the first move and ask him out for coffee or something. He could be just really shy. Nothing wrong with a woman making the first move
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I agree, you're friends are probably right. Maybe you should make the first move and ask him out for coffee or something. He could be just really shy. Nothing wrong with a woman making the first move
Actually at the begining of the year I asked him to join me for lunch but he said he'd rather eat in his room. I don't know if I should pursue this or not. He is a nice guy but he smokes and he just didn't seem all that in