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I started this strange, something with a guy at work (pause the eye-rolls please since I'm only going to have this job for a few months so not detrimental) and we both didn't want anyone to find out about it. Now I'm getting people assuming there's something going on and carrying rumours through the work place, and also an ex fling of his warning me to stay away (not worried about that either since I just want to have fun with a guy who I think is fun) Anyway, it's made him feel uneasy having to put me in the middle of all his bs past, and he says we should just leave anything that might happen. To this he added that there would be hell to pay for the ex and one other who started the gossip that ruined things.
Added to this, there's a new girl (as there always is) that's joined the work place, and she's already told me she's crazy for him (but she's still in a relationship, go figure) and he spends more time chatting to her than he does me (because anytime the two of us are seen talking alone together, someone immediately says: what's going on between the two of you. Annoyance.) So, while I'm the first co-worker in four years he's ever slept with, I wonder if he'd go for her in the hopes of deterring me?
If not, ladies and especially gentlemen, I need your help. What would sway you to spend a little quality time with me in a situation like this?
Life is what happens when you make other plans - going to be offline for quite a while... well, might pop back every now and then
Wish you were here - Incubus I dig my toes into the sand
The ocean looks like a thousand diamonds
Strewn across a blue blanket
I lean against the wind
Pretend that I am weightless
And in this moment I am happy...happy
Huh, so you just want to bed this guy right? (according to your title)
So just go and ask him, if he's into just sex for the hell of it, then you dont need 10 days, all u need is 5 minutes to ask the question.
Now the rest of your post, I am not sure what you want. Sounds like you also now want some kind of relationship with the guy? or just have him as a fuck buddy? it also sounds like you just want to compete with this other girl for the guy's attention. So what is it really that you are looking for?
Nordic-kulta, Pidän sinusta oikein paljon. Kiinalaisten ja suomalaisten lapsista tulee kauniita!
He's in this indicisive mode because of all the crap surrounding him. We've talked about it, he says maybe we'll do ourselves good by forgetting about it. I've said no, and that I still want him. He says I'm stubborn and won't listen, but then eye-fucks me at random moments. I want to get him off the fence and into bed
He's in this indicisive mode because of all the crap surrounding him. We've talked about it, he says maybe we'll do ourselves good by forgetting about it. I've said no, and that I still want him. He says I'm stubborn and won't listen, but then eye-fucks me at random moments. I want to get him off the fence and into bed
i think he's already made his decision on going further from the sounds of it and any kind of "eye fuck" is either just your imagination or he is just looking for the sake of looking. unless all u asking for is no-strings attached fuck buddy relationship, i say just tell him that or just move on.
clingy neediness is a turnoff to most men, the more you do it, the less likely it'll happen.
Satisfied? You know, I really hope so because God knows you need some satisfaction in life besides shagging Captain Cardboard and I never really liked you anyway and... and you have stupid hair. Spike
clingy neediness is a turnoff to most men, the more you do it, the less likely it'll happen.
No clingy neediness buddy. I see something I like, I want it. I don't want a relationship, no long term kissy kissy huggy huggy, really, its just an attraction thing and it's mutual.
i think he's already made his decision on going further from the sounds of it and any kind of "eye fuck" is either just your imagination or he is just looking for the sake of looking. unless all u asking for is no-strings attached fuck buddy relationship, i say just tell him that or just move on.
Yeah, it sounds like he has, which pisses me off more than anything really. But he seems to sway between being adamant that he won't go for it, and then having moments where he pulls me aside with intent, and in those moments where I almost think something's going to happen, he gets all frustrated, and says "never mind!"
Hot and cold man, hot and cold. If he would say definitively that it's not going to happen, I'd wash my hands of it. But it's like the one that got away
