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Old 04-24-2008, 05:20 AM
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this girl in my lecture

There is this girl who I am attracted to at my university. In the orientation week, we first met and had eye contact, we didn’t talk to each other, but I feel that she might be interested in me. As the semester start, I discovered that we are in exactly the same theatre for all the lectures, so for every lecture, there are chances that I sit next to her.
Occasionally, I caught her looking at me indirectly (never directly). When I went to my lecture this morning, she sat next to me (coz there is only 1 seat between her friend and me). We didn’t talk, or even look at each other (I was too scared). Her left arm “collided” with my left arm for about 4 times, and her foot kick me once coz she was crossing her leg, however she didn’t apologise AT ALL. Wat does this mean? Is she scared? Or is she just not interest in me?
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She likes you and you better do something about it it soon or your window of opportunity is going to go away. Can't get a stronger indicator of interest than what has already happened in most cases.

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^ you call accidentally bumping arms and a foot a strong indicator??? Just look at her and smile and say hello for starters. Women like a confident guy, who is not afraid to say hi.

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I'm with Diesel, smile and say hi. Maybe she's too scared to talk to you? So you gotta make the move. Since you two are in the same classes, suggest to her a study group. The study group will break the ice and you two can get to know each other.
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^ you call accidentally bumping arms and a foot a strong indicator??? Just look at her and smile and say hello for starters. Women like a confident guy, who is not afraid to say hi.
Hm... I'm rather the kind of girl, who avoids body contact if possible, even on a packed bus or train, you know? So for me, it would mean something. But everyone is different.

But what's the problem to just talk to her, if you see her all the time?
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Hm... I'm rather the kind of girl, who avoids body contact if possible, even on a packed bus or train, you know? So for me, it would mean something. But everyone is different.

But what's the problem to just talk to her, if you see her all the time?
That's funny as the European's I've met have a different sense of space then us American's. They always seem to get soo close when they speak w me....feels almost like an invasion of my "private" space (which should be an arm's length). I guess that's just a generalization.
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^ nope, it's an accurate observation, most people here are really in your face, when they talk to you
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^ you call accidentally bumping arms and a foot a strong indicator??? Just look at her and smile and say hello for starters. Women like a confident guy, who is not afraid to say hi.
i dont think the bumping arm and the foot were strong indicator, but becuase of the fact that she didnt say "sorry" for the few contacts is a bit weird. So i think this might be the signal for soemthin.
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A chick giving you eye contact, positioning herself near you, and accidentally or "accidentally" touching you are all good enough reasons for you to talk and then flirt with her.

So next time, just start a casual conversation, get her name if she seems friendly, and have fun if she's receptive.
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