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I went clubbing with my friends 2 weeks ago. As all you guys know, people go clubbing just for fun and wouldn't be serious about anything happens in there. I met this woman, who was a mutual friend. I didn't know many people there and I needed a female to dance with so I would have to dance with her (she was the only one woman in the group and not very attractive to me). After dancing for a while, I got the signals. She was turned on. She invited me to take a break and talk, but I declined. She kept trying and asked my number. In order to be polite, I exchange my number with her. It was the start of my nightmare.
This weekend I went clubbing with my friends again, and she was in the club too. She kept touching my butt and body. Whenever I talked to other girls, she came to interrupt us. I had my friends block me from her and help me avoid her, but she could still find me. She sneaked up behind me and touched my butt. I hated being sexually harrassed. How do I deal with this? I feel so disgusted.
P.S. To those who are curious, she is blonde but not attractive at all.
You did not have the courage or consistency to avoid her beforehand, even danced with her and took her number and maybe she thought you are interested too and now ...
you talk in a bad way about her just because you don't find her that cool?
Please, recollect your balls and tell her clearly but politely that you aren't interested.
POLITELY because ... it's not her fault that you have another taste and no guts.
Seriously, if someone isn't your liking, tell them, but DO NOT use them as long as you need them (dancing, no, you did not really HAVE to dance with her, did you?)
and then complain.
That has no class.
What??!! You can't dance w/ anyone outside the "group"?? Jeesh. Venture out a lil, dood. If you didn't like her from the get-go, don't ask her to dance (never mind give her your phone #). It's a big club, walk around and god-forbid, even ask someone you ARE interested in to dance.
A little side of a polite-rejection, explaining that you didn't think dancing would lead to her falling for you, and a dash of a cold shoulder if she persists. Taking her number was a bad move, it made it seem like you showed interest.
You did not have the courage or consistency to avoid her beforehand, even danced with her and took her number and maybe she thought you are interested too and now ...
you talk in a bad way about her just because you don't find her that cool?
Seriously, if someone isn't your liking, tell them, but DO NOT use them as long as you need them (dancing, no, you did not really HAVE to dance with her, did you?)
and then complain.
That has no class.
I talk in a bad way because what she did is sexual harassment instead of just showing her interest. I did politely give her hints that I was not interested but she kept trying....
Dancing with someone doesn't mean that you are interested, but grab now your balls and tell her that the interest is not mutual. If that does not help, get a friend in common for you and her to convince her.
I talk in a bad way because what she did is sexual harassment instead of just showing her interest. I did politely give her hints that I was not interested but she kept trying....
Yeah, well, if you really feel molested then give her some even clearer words.
There's not other way than mustering up the courage to say "no".
That stuff happens to me too sometimes, if the man is just approaching I tell him off politely, if he is grabbing too much he gets pushed away and/or told off.
That worked 99 out of 100 times.
The 100th fled when I finally yelled at him for touching me inappropriately several times.
