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All I have is one question. There's this girl I'm attracted to, but I can't tell if the feeling is mutual (surprise, right?). We work together, and we make small talk sometimes. Anyhow, the other day, before leaving work, we started talking. I remember she said a joke and I started to laugh. It was really a funny joke. And then something strange happened. We just kinda looked at each other smiling a bit for like 6-7 seconds. Something like that. It was long enough to make me feel a bit strange and embarrassed. So I looked away-- which turned out to be a bad idea because I looked down at her chest by accident, but I didn't mean to (I swear). I was just trying to avoid eye contact. I didn't want her to think I was weird. Anyways, it got worse because then I started to let out some nervous giggles, and then I just sort of walked away, half waving my hand at her.
Anyways, what I wanted to get to is this: when people look at each other and make eye contact for a long time, does that ALWAYS mean something positive? I mean, apart of me thinks, hey, it's pretty logical, right? But then another part of me is like, you can't really ever tell. And how presumptuous would it be to say, Hey, she looked at me. Must mean she digs me... baby. You know?
Every woman is different. Just because your stomach flipped as your eyes met doesn't mean hers did. I always look people in the eye when I speak and holding the gaze afterwards doesn't necessarily mean I have the hots for them.
But it could be the case with her. But it's hard to pass any judgment on the situation with this one tidbit. Like I said, all of us women are different
I say if you like her try to act on it. If you are too shy to ask outright for a date, you can use the "safer" method of "hanging out", which seems to be how people date nowadays anyways.
What if Prince Charming had never shown up? Would Snow White have slept in that glass coffin forever? Or would she have eventually woken up, spit out the apple, gotten a job, a health-care package and a baby from her local neighborhood sperm bank?
Hey, I'm kind of in the same situation. I consider myself pretty good at reading guys and whether or not they like me back, but there's one that's finally stumped me.
I think a lot of eye contact does make a difference sometimes, especially if it's when you're not talking. Do you ever look at her from afar and realize she's checking you out, too? (Just as a glance, not creeper-like or anything) @.@ haha definitely just try to find out what you guys have in common and play off that. If she doesn't like you yet, there's room to grow Good luck!
I can give you a statistical assessment of your winning odds, but that wouldn't be necessary here. Having seen what you saw, you positively can't afford NOT to do anything. So yeah like shellbell said, send a probe and see what comes back.
Then check for moles.
"I am not ready to announce yet — even though it's clear that the voters are desperate for a white, male, middle-aged, Jesus-trumpeting alternative." - Stephen Colbert Announcing HuiNeng's Run for da House.
Yeah, I think maybe I'm blowing this way out of proportion.
Thanks for answering!
It is hard to tell sometimes if everything is in your head or not. I think the case I have here is a good example. 6-7 seconds? Could be all in my head. Holding eye contact after conversation? Could be just the way she is.
I think sometimes things are always magnified when you have feelings for a specific person. And I am the type of person very much inclined to constantly think, What's that mean?
Unfortunately, I'm a pretty shy person when it comes to women. I don't know why. I can do presentations fine. I lead a group fine. I talk to people fine. I don't have much of an issue with anything else unless it's a woman that I like.
I remember I used to have a good female friend that I used to hang out with a good amount. But when she told me one day that she was wondering if dating one another was in mind, I kinda freaked out. I had no idea whether or not I liked her in that way. Well, things didn't really turn out all that well.
I think it's this: I think I always view women with great mystery.
*high five* Jenner! lmao!