We had a thread on this before about the MYSPACE site. But, this thread that I am starting is more indepth. About when you find that long lost EX- boyfriend/Girlfriend.
I am wondering should I write. When I finally break down to write to that person, what do I say?
So far, I found one of my ex's along with his kids. My now friends. He found out that I found them and made his page private so I can't look at it. Like I really care to see his LAME page that I already looked at MANY times. It was lame. I copyed photos of it. But, his two kids are my friends now that they are of age. It was a really bad break up. I will write a blog on here about it SOON.
Then I found another ex on here and WROTE to him just saying.
" IS YOUR LAST NAME, SO AND SO..." That is all I worte to him. I have yet to get a response. As some of you all know, My page is PRIVATE on MySpace.
Now, I found another ex. I looked for him before and I spelled his name wrong. This time I spelled it RIGHT! Also, his page is OPEN and not Private. It is HIM, I just know it! He aged UGLY,but, it is him!! Tall, Fat, Red hair and GUITAR lover.
His wife is U.G.L.Y as hell!!!!!!!! I won't lie on if your pretty or not. But, anyways. She looks OLDER than him. Their son is NOT a red head.
I just know that is him!
So, what would you say to the EX- boyfriends/ girlfriend of yours? I am just going to ask him if he was in the Navy and stationed in Iceland. HA HA!!
Then see if he writes back. I won't even tell him anything more. unless he write back.

Hmm, what to say what to say. In my case, I would not say anything, all my break-ups, I initiated because I wanted them out of my life for good. However, in your case, I guess a simple How have you been or the question about the Navy. Definitely make it something nonthreatening or else it could get ugly. Good luck!

I look at him and I know that is HIM!!!


When we were together he told me that I was FAT!! Now when I look at him I HATE him!!! Hubby says I am fat and it is true.. HA HA!!
But, back then I was tiny!!!!!

OOPS It was a double post.

Oooh oooh Neko, so much hate! People change, bodies change, forgetting and forgiving is part of a healthy life. USE IT! lol

If you do HAVE to contact these guys, you could say something like 'years have past and so much is changed, I just was wondering how you are. I hope you and yours are well.' These 'fat' and 'ugly' comments have got to go though...

"If you can't be kind, be vague."

I would have to agree that, if you're not contacting them for positive reasons, or just to say hi, then you should just let it go and move on.

Also, I wouldn't call his wife ugly, alittle older perhaps, but not ugly. Goodness, what is your definition of ugly?? I'd probably be considered a gargoyle then.

Sorry...
About the FAT/ Ugly part..
But, he wanted me to be super skinny..
I was remebering that when I was looking at his freaking photo! ok, he is still handsome... " I hate that he is... GOSH, I do!!
He was so superficial when we were together!!
Then he told me that he was with two girls before me in the sack. Then later he tells me that he was a virgin!!
UGH!!
Now I don't even want to talk to him!!!!!!!!


Asshole wanted me to choose him or my other guy...!!
I chose NEITHER!! In the long run

Um, Sha259 I looked at your Profile photo...
Your beautiful!!
When me and him were together back when I was a PARTY girl..."
He hated FAT girls!! He was also so mixed up like I was ..." We were in LOVE back then. But, I could not marry him, he was not ready for that NOR was I .." It was so comlicated!! GOSH was it.."
But, DAMN his wife looks 40 or something!!!!!!!!!
Damn he still looks good...
LOL!!