BlumpkinKing

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So, I've been getting a little involved with an undergrad on my campus. She's adorable, long legs , great smile, flawless skin, breast bigger than I thought was possible. She kicks ass in Left 4 Dead and told me to "Fuck your mother" in Korean flawlessly which impresses me immensely. I find myself daydreaming about her laugh during lectures.

Just one problem, by most accounts she's fat. There's really no way around it. She's a fat girl, I want to nail her despite of this, but I'm kinda going no where. First attempt to nail ended with her crying.

so advice- Fat girls, WTF? Help.

Bergamot

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You're an asshole...

... my advice to you is to turn gay.

HoozeYoDaddy

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Just treat her like you would any other girl. What does being fat have to do with a person's character?

Tempress

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I'm still staring at this amazed that you said that. Anyways I agree with Hooze. Treat her like any other girl- well treat her kindly (since I don't know how you treat girls if you talk like this), flirt and don't be a jerk .
WTHeck did you do to make her cry?

mimi

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lol this amuses me, but doesn't offend me.

Yes, we overweight women can be sexy, desireable, and fabulous despite our extra pounds.

Honeslty just tell her how you feel, obviously leaving out the fatty part!

and what left exactly left her crying?

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tigerxpnoi

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sounds to be like you are being shallow and unless you cant see that, I suggest you do not get involved with her because you are going to end up hurting her in one way or another...if she likes you that is.

physical attraction wears out in time....compatibility...thats hard to find.

mimi

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pre-emptively, so this doesn't turn into another fat bashing thread that we are all so sick of, please direct any negative comments to this thread...http://www.aznlover.com/vbulletin/lo...isgusting.html

It's just preferable to having it spewed all over the forums, thanks =)

CityLights

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Show her this post so she can run as far away as possible, to someone not quite as douchey as you.

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Eiko212

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After seeing Mimi's post, I am going to save my rant for my blog... ooohhhhhh I seriously need to blog this one out!!!!!!

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mimi

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you know..I really don't think he's being a total douche and asshole..I maybe wrong..

But I think he's growing up a little and feeling a little out of his element. I sure did really stupid and douchey things when I started dating Asian guys.

She will be sensitive about how she looks, because it's hard, especially on younger women to be secure with their sexiness when they are overweight. Tell her you think she's beautiful. Tell her you love her laugh. Basic complimenting 101. No one likes their flaws pointed out, especially if they are obvious ones such as weight, it's not like we're UNAWARE of the extra pounds.

Now for you...you have to be willing to put up with the assholes who wonder why you are with a fatty, and you need to be confident and tell them to go fuck themselves.